...क्रोध मौन सहन नहीं कर सकता हैं। मौन के आगे क्रोध की शक्ति असफल हो जाती है.-प्रेमचंद

जो चीज़ कम होती है, उसकी याद लंबे समय तक आती रहती है। 

Never close your lips to those whom you have opened your heart. — Charles Dickens

इस दुनिया में वो "बोझ" सबसे ज्यादा भारी होते हैं.. जिनको "कंधों" की जगह "दिल" को उठाना पड़ता है! (LEAVE THE HABIT OF PEEPING AT OTHERS’ PLATES)

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A 50 year old gentleman was suffering from deep depression and his wife took an appointment with a counselor who was also an astrologer.

The Wife said:- "He is in severe depression, please see his horoscope also."

The astrologer saw the horoscope and found everything correct. Now he started his counseling. He asked some personal things and asked the gentleman's wife to sit outside.

The gentleman spoke “I am too much worried.. Infact I am overwhelmed by worries... Job pressure... Children's education and job tension... Home loan, car loan...
I don’t like anything... The world thinks of me as a cannon... But I don't have as much stuff as even a cartridge.. I am depressed”
Saying this he opened the book of his whole life in front of the counselor.

Then the learned counselor thought something and asked, "In which school did you study your 10th standard?"

The gentleman told him the name of the school.

The counselor said “You have to go to that school. From your school you locate your 'Class X' register and look up the names of your peers and try to get information about their current well being. Write down all the information in a diary and meet me after a month."

The gentleman went to his school, managed to find the register, and got it copied. There were 120 names in it. He Tried day and night throughout one month, but was barely able to collect information about 75-80 classmates.

Surprise!!!

20 of them were dead...

7 were widowed/widowers and 13 were divorced...

10 turned out to be addicts who weren't even worth talking about...

5 came out so poor that nobody could answer for them..

6 turned out to be so rich that he couldn't believe it...

Some were cancerous, some were paralyzed, diabetic, asthmatic or heart patients..

A couple of people were in bed with injuries to the arm/leg or spinal cord in accidents...

The children of some turned out to be insane, vagabonds or useless...
One was in jail... one person after two divorces was looking for a third marriage...

Within a month, the register of class X was narrating the agony of fate itself...

The counselor asked:- "Now tell me how is your depression?"

The gentleman understood that 'he had no disease, he was not starving, his mind was perfect, he was not brought up by the court / police/ lawyers, his wife and children were very good and healthy. He was also healthy...

That gentleman realized that there really is a lot of sorrow in the world, and that he was very happy and lucky.

Leave the habit of peeping at others' plates, take the food of your plate with love. Don't compare with others. Everyone has their own destiny.

And still, if you think that you are in depression, then you should also go to your school, bring the register of class X and......

"Be careful what you tolerate. You are teaching people how to treat you."

 शिक्षित व्यक्ति भाग्य का अस्तित्व स्वीकार नहीं कर सकता।

रबींद्रनाथ टैगोर

जिदंगी के हर इम्तिहान से गुज़र जाती हूँ परन्तु आपकी याद आँखे नम कर जाती है ..!

मैं जनता हूँ के मुझमें, बहुत सी कमियां हैं अगर हैं आप मुकम्मल, तो छोड़ दें मुझको...

हर कोई चन्दन नहींं..

कि सुगन्धित कर सके.....

कुछ नीम के पेड़ भी है..

जो...सुगन्धिंत तो नही करते..

पर काम बहुत आते हैं.....!!

"आत्मसम्मान" बेचकर "इज्जत" कमाना, हर रोज "मरने" के समान है...।

पता नहीं था हमें, इतना ज़हर है उसमें हम उसकी शहद सी बातों में खोए खोए थे

"Be careful what you tolerate. You are teaching people how to treat you."

Detachment is not that you should own nothing, but that nothing should own you.

Detachment is not that you should own nothing, but that nothing should own you.

If you can’t figure out where you stand with someone, it might be time to stop standing and start walking.

The people who believe they’ll be happy if they go and live somewhere else … learn it doesn’t work that way. Wherever you go, you take yourself with you.

If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete

Don’t ever feel bad for making a decision that upsets other people. You are not responsible for their happiness. You are responsible for your happiness.

The less you respond to negative people the more peaceful your life will become.

Love everybody But never sell your sword

A smart person will give you smart answers, 

but a wise person will ask you smart questions.

The most powerful way to win an argument is by asking questions. 

It can make people see the flaws in their logic.

BE KIND, BE FAIR,be honest, be true, and all of these things will come back to you. Always remember, what goes around comes around.

BE KIND, BE FAIR,

be honest, be true, 

and all of these things will come back to you. 

Always remember, 

what goes around comes around.

Every time you subtract negative from your life, you make room for more positive.

We are in this life to learn, grow and move forward.

When you are feeling sad, lonely or hopeless, 

pause, 

take a few deep breaths 

and remember 

who you are, 

why you are here and 

all that you have been through to get here.

Trust that nothing stays the same, and this feeling will pass.

Never settle. Your life is precious, and you are worthy

Love everybody But never sell your sword

There is something beautiful in letting go. In understanding all the places we aren't meant to be.

Often letting go is not something that can happen on the spot. 

It's a process. You have the physical act of releasing which may seem immediate.

but deep within you have all of the feelings attached.

Letting go is big. 

Be patient and loving and allow the feelings a chance to move through you. 

You will come out the other side free.

Peaceful Mind Peaceful Life

There is something beautiful in letting go.

In understanding all the places we aren't meant to be. 

-BLAKE AUDEN

Discussion is anexchange of THOUGHTS & KNOWLEDGE, promote it. Argument is an exchange of EGO & IGNORANCE, avoid it.

Discussion is an

exchange of THOUGHTS & KNOWLEDGE, promote it. Argument is an exchange of EGO & IGNORANCE, avoid it.

दिल जीतने का मक़सद-ऐ-हुनर रखो

दुनिया जीतकर तो सिकंदर भी ख़ाली हाथ ही गया !!!

Dictionary says that:

OPEN and CLOSE are opposites....

life teaches: 

we are OPEN ONLY WITH THOSE WITH WHOM WE ARE CLOSE.

आवाज जब किसी को चुभने लगेउन्हें अपनी ख़ामोशी दे दो...!!

अपनी उलझन को बढ़ाने की ज़रूरत क्या है 

छोड़ना है तो बहाने की ज़रूरत क्या है..!

आज बैठे हैं तिरे पास कई दोस्त नए 

अब तुझे दोस्त पुराने की ज़रूरत क्या है 

साथ रहते हो मगर साथ नहीं रहते हो 

ऐसे रिश्ते को निभाने की ज़रूरत क्या है..!

There’s that one person you’ll never get over

no matter how long it’s been.

तुम डरे हुए नदी के किनारे खड़े हो...

कहानी पानी के नीचे की दुनिया में पड़ी हुई है..!!!

सवाल ये है हवा आई किस इशारे परचराग़ किसके बुझे ये सवाल थोड़ी है..!

माफ़ करना सीखिए 

हम भी 

रब से यही उमीद करते हैं...

:बन्सी

बहुत क़रीब से कुछ भी न देख पाओगे,

कि देखने के लिए फ़ासला ज़रूरी है !

अब पूछते क्यों हो खैरियत मुझसे,

जब मेरे बर्बादी के चर्चे पूरे शहर में है !

थोड़ी फिक्र..थोड़ी कद्र..

कभी कभी खोज खबर,

ये अहसास हैं...हमेशा करते हैं बड़ा असर ..!!

दुश्मनों को हमेशा माफ़ करें,

 इससे बढ़कर पीड़ादायक उनके लिए कुछ नहीं।

अगर कोई बड़ा है तो 

इसका अर्थ यह नहीं कि आप छोटे हैं।

महान चीज़ें हमेशा सरल और विनम्र होती हैं।

बड़े करीब थे वो लोग.. 

जिन्होंने दूरियों के मायने समझाए है !

सुकूँ में है अगर वो मेरे बगैर.....

सुकूँ पर उसके मैं.. हर खुशी लुटा दूँ....

सुकूँ में है अगर वो मेरे बगैर.....

सुकूँ पर उसके मैं.. हर खुशी लुटा दूँ....

Every deep thinker is more afraid 

of being understood 

than 

of being misunderstood.

"मशरूफ" ...कोई नहीं होता 

मुद्दा तो सिर्फ "तवज़्ज़ो".... का है !

राब्ता इतना भी  दर्मियाँ होना कुछ कम नहीं... 

उनकी हर शिकायत.. मुझसे ही है... चलो यूँ ही सही

कहानी क्या ख़त्म हुई.. ख़्याल ये तब आया

तेरे सिवा भी तो कितने किरदार थे कहानी में ...

अजीब क़ैद थी... जिसमें  ख़ुशी बहुत थी मुझे

अब अश्क थमते नहीं हैं... आख़िर ये रिहाई कैसी है

बुरी आदतों की ताकत का अंदाज़ 

तब होता है,

जब उसे छोड़ने की 

बारी आती है..

:बंसी

Irons rusts from disuse, 

stagnant water loses its purity and in cold weather becomes frozen; 

even so does inaction sap the vigor of the mind.

दम तोड़ते रिश्तों की अंत्येष्टि 

उचित समय पर करना ही श्रेयस्कर होता है।

:बंसी

कद्र और कब्र 

कभी जीते जी नहीं मिलती...!!

Disappointment is inevitable

when you grab an opportunity,

but that is not exactly what you want.

:Bansi

If you think you are too small to make a difference, 

you haven't spent the night with a mosquito.

WE DO NOT SEE THINGS AS THEY ARE.

WE SEE THINGS AS WE ARE.

NEVER MISTAKE SILENCE

 FOR AGREEMENT.

अब के जाते हुए इस तरह किया सलाम उसने,

डूबने वाला कोई हाथ उठाए जैसे..

सिर्फ़ अंदाज़-ए-बयान बात बदल देता है "ज़नाब"...

वरना दुनिया में कोई बात, नई नहीं होती..!!!

I honestly believe that every single person has to go through something that absolutely destroys them so they can find out who they really are.

I honestly believe that every single person has to go through something that absolutely destroys them so they can find out who they really are.

कद्र और कब्र 

कभी जीते जी नहीं मिलती...!!

दम तोड़ते रिश्तों की अंत्येष्टि उचित समय पर करना ही श्रेयस्कर होता है।

A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are made for.

When you are attracted to people, it's because of the details. Their kindness. Their eyes. The fact that they can get you to laugh when you need it the most.

When you are attracted to people, it's because of the details. 

Their kindness. Their eyes. 

The fact that they can get you to laugh when you need it the most.

When you are attracted to people, it's because of the details. 

Their kindness. Their eyes. 

The fact that they can get you to laugh when you need it the most.

Show me the most damaged parts of your soul, 

and I will show you how it still shines like gold.

Scars on your body show that you have lived; scars on your heart show that you have loved.

कितने अज़ीब होते है लोग,बात पकड़ कर इंसान छोड़ देते है..

मैं जिसके हाथ मैं इक फूल दे के आया था, 

उसी के हाथ का पत्थर मेरी तलाश में है ।।

“नफ़रत करने वाले भी

कमाल का हुनर रखते हैं,

देखना भी नहीं चाहते

और नज़र भी

हर वक्त रखते हैं”

जवानी का लहू ही ऐसा होता है, 

आप पटकी खाए बिना मानता कौन है.!

थोड़ी सी रोशनी मांगी थी जिंदगी में

चाहनेवालो ने आग ही लगा दी....

अस्तित्व ने आनंद दिया है..

दुःख तो......

हमारी खोज है..

*जिसे गुण की पहचान नही उसकी प्रशंसा से डरो* 

*जिसे गुण की पहचान है उसके मौन से डरो..*

*:बन्सी*

जिन्हें मंज़िल हुई है मुफ़्त हासिल 

वो  रस्तों  की कहानी लिख रहें हैं

जिसकी जड़ों के पास की मिट्टी न सख़्त हो, 

ऐसे शजर पे भरोसा न कीजिये...

कह देना समुंदर से हम ओंस के मोती हैं 

दरिया की तरह तुझ से मिलने नहीं आएँगे!!

सबसे बेहतरीन 

नज़र वो है 

जो अपनी कमियों 

को देख सके..

:बन्सी

*Forgiving people in silence and never speaking to them again is a form of self care.*

*:Bansi*

ख़ौफ़ नाकामियों का इतना सता रहा है !!

वो सेंघ अपने ही घर में लगा रहा है !!

जो मिलकर भी मिलते नहीं 

वो मुकम्मल बिछड़ते भी नहीं..!!

अकेले फूल को 

कई काँटों से इर्ष्या करने की ज़रुरत नहीं होती।

संपन्नता मन की अच्छी होती हैं, धन की नहीं

धन की संपन्नता 

अहंकार देती हैं,

मन की संपन्नता संस्कार

अहंकार दूसरों को 

झुकाने में आनंदित होता हैं,

संस्कार खुद झुकने में आनंदित होता हैं..

सिर्फ़ अंदाज़-ए-बयान बात बदल देता है "ज़नाब"...वरना दुनिया में कोई बात, नई नहीं होती..!!!

सिर्फ़ अंदाज़-ए-बयान बात बदल देता है "ज़नाब"...

वरना दुनिया में कोई बात, नई नहीं होती..!!!

अब के जाते हुए इस तरह किया सलाम उसने,

डूबने वाला कोई हाथ उठाए जैसे..

NEVER MISTAKE SILENCE

 FOR AGREEMENT.

WE DO NOT SEE THINGS AS THEY ARE.

WE SEE THINGS AS WE ARE.

If you think you are too small to make a difference, 

you haven't spent the night with a mosquito.

Disappointment is inevitable

when you grab an opportunity,

but that is not exactly what you want.

:Bansi

"Always carry some childishness in your lifebecause that's the only thing that can keep your innocence alive.."

"Always carry some childishness in your life

because that's the only thing that can keep your innocence alive.."

Disappointment is inevitable

when you grab an opportunity, but that is not exactly what you want.

POSITIVE THINKING is not only about EXPECTING the best to Happen.. 

But It is also about ACCEPTING whatever happens is for The BEST..

MIND

is not a dustbin to keep anger, hatred and jealousy. But it is the treasure box to keep, love happiness and sweet memories.

If you put all your troubles inside you, 

you will not be able to stand up.

ख़ामोशी से तुम अपना क़िरदार जियो,

जिसे तुम्हारा होना होगा, हो जायेगा !

सिर्फ़ अंदाज़-ए-बयान बात बदल देता है "सहाब"...वरना दुनिया में कोई बात, नई नहीं होती..!!!

A lot of the pain that we are dealing with are really only thoughts. 

अब के जाते हुए इस तरह किया सलाम उसने,

डूबने वाला कोई हाथ उठाए जैसे..

वो चाहता है कि दरिया सूख जाए वो रेत का व्यापार करना चाहता है

वो चाहता है कि दरिया सूख जाए 

वो रेत का व्यापार करना चाहता है

मैं जानता था के अब रेल मुड़ नहीं सकती

जो हाथ एक दफा छूट गया .. बस वो छूट गया ,

व्यक्ति अगर छांव देने वाले वृक्षों की क़दर ना करे तो धूप उसका नसीब बन जाती है

आज वो हमें बता रहे हैं 

कि नजर अंदाज कैसे करते हैं

एक दिन हम उन्हें बताएंगे की अफसोस किसे कहते है..!!

They start missing you when they fail to replace you.

They start missing you when they fail to replace you.

Things I know about healing: Speaking kindly to yourself helps a lot.

You don't find love, it finds you. It's got a little bit to do with destiny, fate, and what's written in the stars.

I want deeper connections with the people around me. I need to reach out more. Because not everyone leaves. Sometimes if you reach out, the person you're trying to reach will be right there waiting.

Sometimes you have to unfollow people in real life.

Nobody wants to hear this, but sometimes the person you want most, is the person you’re best without.

नहीं खाई ठोकरें सफर में, तो मंजिल की अहमियत कैसे जानोगे,अगर नही टकराए गलत से तो, सहीकैसे पहचानोगे...

अकेले फूल को 

कई काँटों से इर्ष्या करने की ज़रुरत नहीं होती।

संपन्नता मन की अच्छी होती हैं, धन की नहीं

धन की संपन्नता 

अहंकार देती हैं,

मन की संपन्नता संस्कार

अहंकार दूसरों को 

झुकाने में आनंदित होता हैं,

संस्कार खुद झुकने में आनंदित होता हैं..

रामायण में दो व्यक्ति थे:

विभीषण और कैकेयी,

विभीषण रावण राज में रहता था,

फिर भी नही बिगड़ा......

कैकेयी राम राज्य में रहती थी 

फिर भी नहीं सुधरी...

सुधरना और बिगड़ना केवल मनुष्य की सोच और स्वभाव पर निर्भर करता है.....स्थान पर नहीं!

सबसे बेहतरीन 

नज़र वो है 

जो अपनी कमियों 

को देख सके..

:बन्सी

कह देना समुंदर से हम ओस के मोती हैं दरिया की तरह तुझ से मिलने नहीं आएँगे

The fastest way to attract anything is to give. 

So if you want money, give it. It doesn’t matter how much or to whom, just give.

ज़िन्दगी तुम्हारे उसी गुण का

इम्तिहान लेती है, 

जो तुम्हारे भीतर मौजूद है..

BE KIND.

EVERYONE IS STILL HEALING FROM THINGS THEY DON'T SPEAK ABOUT

WE ALWAYS WORRY ABOUT OUR LOOKS, STATUS AND POWER... 

BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT THEY NEITHER MATTER TO THOSE WHO LOVE US, 

NOR TO THOSE WHO DON'T LOVE US.

Remember, 

most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.

Adjust your attitude, 

all that extra stress is gone.

When you are GOOD AT

SOMETHING,

You will tell everyone.

When you are great at 

SOMETHING, 

THEY'LL TELL YOU.

If you want to win, be bold... but patient.

DO NOT GET ADDICTED TO ESCAPING

FACE your sh*t, 

HANDLE your business, and triumph.

No battle was EVER WON

by people who RUN.

People will provoke

you until they bring out your ugly side,

then play victim when you go there.

Never cut a tree down in the wintertime. 

Never make a negative decision in the low time. Never make your most important decisions when you are in your worst moods. 

Wait. Be patient. The storm will pass.

The spring will come.

There are some people who always seem angry, and continuously look for conflict. Walk away; the battle they are fighting isn’t with you, it is with themselves.

There are some people who always seem angry, and continuously look for conflict. Walk away; the battle they are fighting isn’t with you, it is with themselves.

Love me or hate me, both are in my favour… If you love me, I’ll always be in your heart … If you hate me, I’ll always be in your mind.

There are two types of people you will meet in your life. One will run a finger down the index of who you are and jump straight to the parts of you that peak their interest. The other will take his or her time reading through every one of your chapters and maybe unfold corners of you that inspired them most. You will meet these two people; it is a given. It is the third that you’ll never see coming. That one person who not only finishes your sentences, but keeps the book.

If you hesitate between me and another person, don’t choose me.

The greatest productivity app is thinking more deeply.

Your psychology is your greatest barrier to your physiology.

हमें रखना अंधेरे में तुम्हें भारी न पड़ जाए

अंधेरा देर तक रहने पे चीज़ें दिखने लगती हैं !!

ज़िन्दगी नहीं रुकती किसी के बगैर...

बस उस शख़्स की जगह हमेशा खाली रह जाती है ।। 

फरिश्तों की हो ज़मी या घर महबूब का,

जो छोड़ दिया फिर उसे मुड़ कर नहीं देखा।

ना चाहते हुए भी बहुत से रिश्ते जीवन भर ढोने पड़ते हैं

उस शख़्स ने बहुत रुलाया है,

जिसे मैंने ख़ुद से ज्‍यादा चाहा है।

सादगी सबसे मुश्किल चीज़ है, ये तजरुबे की आख़री हद और अक़ल की आख़री कोशिश है.

सादगी में सुकून है! 

Peaceful Mind Peaceful Life

you are overreacting, that your feelings are overblown, or that you are too sensitive.

Feelings are feelings and they are meant to be felt, acknowledged, understood and then they begin to move through the body, releasing you of the pain and suffering.... Period.

Never deny your feelings or push them down thinking that they will simply disappear eventually.

If your feelings are not acknowledged and felt, they will come out sideways somewhere in your life as anger, resentment, fear, or even illness.

your life as anger, resentment, fear, or even illness.

If you are hurt, you're hurt, so feel the feelings, understand how they are impacting you, take the actions that are in your best interest and do no harm to others.

No one notices your sadness until it turns into anger, and then you're the bad person.

The higher we are placed, the more humbly we should walk.

"Some beautiful paths can't be discovered

without getting lost."

The short term pain of accepting the truth is much better than the long term pain of believing an illusion...

The only thing more expensive than education is ignorance.

Benjamin Franklin

Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.

There’s a difference between losing something you knew you had and losing something you discovered you had. One is a disappointment. The other feels like losing a piece of yourself.

थोड़ी सी रोशनी मांगी थी जिंदगी में

चाहनेवालो ने आग ही लगा दी....

अस्तित्व ने आनंद दिया है..

दुःख तो......

हमारी खोज है..

*जिसे गुण की पहचान नही उसकी प्रशंसा से डरो* 

*जिसे गुण की पहचान है उसके मौन से डरो..*

*:बन्सी*

जिन्हें मंज़िल हुई है मुफ़्त हासिल 

वो  रस्तों  की कहानी लिख रहें हैं

जिसकी जड़ों के पास की मिट्टी न सख़्त हो, 

ऐसे शजर पे भरोसा न कीजिये...

At first they’ll ask you why you’re doing it. Later they’ll ask you how you did it.

At first they’ll ask you why you’re doing it. Later they’ll ask you how you did it.

कितने अज़ीब होते है लोग,

बात पकड़ कर 

इंसान छोड़ देते है..

मैं जिसके हाथ मैं इक फूल दे के आया था, 

उसी के हाथ का पत्थर मेरी तलाश में है ।।

“नफ़रत करने वाले भी

कमाल का हुनर रखते हैं,

देखना भी नहीं चाहते

और नज़र भी

हर वक्त रखते हैं”

जवानी का लहू ही ऐसा होता है, 

आप पटकी खाए बिना मानता कौन है.!

थोड़ी सी रोशनी मांगी थी जिंदगी में

चाहनेवालो ने आग ही लगा दी....

अस्तित्व ने आनंद दिया है..

दुःख तो......

हमारी खोज है..

*जिसे गुण की पहचान नही उसकी प्रशंसा से डरो* 

*जिसे गुण की पहचान है उसके मौन से डरो..*

*:बन्सी*

जिन्हें मंज़िल हुई है मुफ़्त हासिल 

वो  रस्तों  की कहानी लिख रहें हैं

जिसकी जड़ों के पास की मिट्टी न सख़्त हो, 

ऐसे शजर पे भरोसा न कीजिये...

Stop letting people 

who do so little for you

control so much of your mind and emotions.

The more something upsets you, the more it is meant for you. When it no longer upsets you, it is no longer needed because the lesson is complete.

Ability is nothing without opportunity.

There’s a Japanese phrase that I like: koi no yokan. It doesn’t mean love at first sight. It’s closer to love at second sight. It’s the feeling when you meet someone that you’re going to fall in love with them. Maybe you don’t love them right away, but it’s inevitable that you will.

Make yourself a priority once in a while. It’s not selfish. It’s necessary.

Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger.

Don’t hang out with people who treat you as less than you are.

There’s a difference between losing something you knew you had and losing something you discovered you had. One is a disappointment. The other feels like losing a piece of yourself.

Don’t call it a dream. Call it a plan.

I need to learn how to stop destroying myself, stop being hard on myself, and be nice to myself.

चिराग कैसे अपनी मजबूरियां बयां करें 

हवा जरूरी भी है और डर भी उसी से है......

:बंसी

रिश्तों का हिफ़ाज़त किजिए

चाहे वो खुन के हो या एहसास के ..!!

A degree is just a piece of paper.

To become successful you have to educate yourself daily.

There are some people who always seem angry, and continuously look for conflict. Walk away; the battle they are fighting isn’t with you, it is with themselves.

Love me or hate me, both are in my favour… If you love me, I’ll always be in your heart … If you hate me, I’ll always be in your mind.

You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them… But still move on without them.

There are two types of people you will meet in your life. One will run a finger down the index of who you are and jump straight to the parts of you that peak their interest. The other will take his or her time reading through every one of your chapters and maybe unfold corners of you that inspired them most. You will meet these two people; it is a given. It is the third that you’ll never see coming. That one person who not only finishes your sentences, but keeps the book.

If you hesitate between me and another person, don’t choose me.

जीवन में हद से ज़्यादा एमियत किसी को नहीं देनी चाहिए..बात उनसे भी बंद हो जाती हैजिन्हें हर बात बता दी जाती है..

If you dislike someone, dislike them alone. Don't recruit others to join your case.

We are often let down by the most trusted people and loved by the most unexpected ones. 

Some make us cry for things that we haven't done, while others ignore our faults and just see our smile. 

Some leave us when we need them the most, while some stay with us even when ask them to leave.

The world is a mixture of people. 

We just need to know which hand to shake and which hand to hold! 

After all that's life, learning to hold on and learning to let go.

सांप को पीला दो प्रेम का भी अमृत, फिर भी वो जहर ही उगलते है,, 

वैसे ही जिसके हृदय में हो स्वार्थ ए नफ़रत, वो एक दिन व्यक्ति को जरूर छलते है।।

Memories

Remind us that nothing lasts forever, you can be happy today and sad tomorrow, time is precious and should not be wasted, enjoy life and remember don't count your days make your days count.

If you Never Taste A Bad Apple. You Would Never Appreciate A Good Apple.

"Sometimes We Need To Experience Bitterness Of Life To Understand The Value Of Sweetness"

Life is the art of drawing without an eraser So be careful while taking any small decisions about valuable pages of life

Life is the art of drawing without an eraser So be careful while taking any small decisions about valuable pages of life

"Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better."

Never try to test good people Because good people are like mercury. When you hit them. Altaft Collection Mial Collection Alt they will not break, but they just slip away from your life silently.

दो पहाड़ियों को 

सिर्फ़ पुल ही नहीं जोड़ते

खाई भी जोड़ती है।

ज़िन्दगी भर की उदासी के लिए काफ़ी है ...

वो एक तस्वीर जो हँसते हुए खिंचवाई है ...

मुझे गुनहगार साबित करने की ज़हमत ना उठा  

....बस ख़बर  दे ....क्या क्या क़ुबूल करना है ! 

You become what you surround yourself with. Energies are contagious. Choose carefully. Your environment will become you.

You have to love somebody that much to also hate them that much, too.

Don’t save your good lingerie for dates, wear it for you.

It’s the things we love most, that destroy us.

A mistake is an accident. Cheating and lying are not mistakes, they are intentional choices.

“The fact that man knows right from wrong proves his intellectual superiority to other creatures; but the fact that he can do wrong proves his moral inferiority to any creature.”

परिवार के प्रति धैर्य प्यार कहलाता हैं,

औरो के प्रति धैर्य  सम्मान कहलाता है,

स्वयं के प्रति धैर्य आत्मविश्वास कहलाता है 

भगवान के प्रति धैर्य आस्था कहलाता है..

If you keep having the same problem over and over again, maybe the problem is you

भरोसा करना सीखना ज़िंदगी के सबसे कठिन कामों में से एक है, और भरोसा तोड़ देना दुनिया के सबसे आसान कामों में से एक।

चाहे जितना भी बिगड़ जाए ज़माने का चलन 

झूट से हारते देखा नहीं #सच्चाई को..!

"You stop explaining yourself when you realize people only understand from their level of perception."Jim Carrey

BEING RAISED

RIGHT DOESN'T

MEAN YOU

DON'T DRINK,

PARTY OR

SMOKE.

BEING RAISED

RIGHT IS HOW

YOU TREAT

PEOPLE, YOUR

MANNERS AND

RESPECT.

Some will leave you standing in the rain alone.

Some will walk with you under the umbrella.

While some will hold that umbrella for you and say, I will help you.

If you’ve been brutally broken but still have the courage to be gentle, then you’re a badass with the heart of an angel.

Beautiful things don’t ask for attention.

You don’t always need a plan. Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust, let go, and see what happens.

Today I forgive myself. Not just once. Again, and again, and again. As many times as it takes to find peace.

Let everything happen to you: Beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final.

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.

People go but how they left always stays.

If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything.

I am thankful for the difficult people in my life. They have shown me exactly who I don’t want to be.

Don’t waste words on people who deserve your silence. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all.

मैं अभी से किस तरह उन को बेवफ़ा कहूँ.

मंज़िलों की बात है रास्ते में क्या कहूँ...!!"

ढूँढ़ते हो अगर कमियाँ मुझमें तो बुरा क्यों मानूँ,

आख़िर इस जहाँ में मुकम्मल क्या है..

अक्सर साथ यूं ही छूट जाया करते है

कभी दिल नहीं मिलता कभी मुकद्दर नहीं मिलता..!!

Don’t be intimidated by other people’s opinions. Only mediocrity is sure of itself, so take risks and do what you really want to do.

Never discredit your gut instinct. You are not paranoid. Your body can pick up on bad vibrations. If something deep inside of you says something is not right about a person or situation, trust it.

Be happy for no reason, like a child. If you are happy for a reason, you’re in trouble, because that reason can be taken from you.

I think people would be happier if they admitted things more often. In a sense we are all prisoners of some memory, or fear, or disappointment—we are all defined by something we can’t change.

Don’t be intimidated by other people’s opinions. Only mediocrity is sure of itself, so take risks and do what you really want to do.

People come in and out of your life. For a time they are your world; they are everything. And then one day they’re not.

Be with someone who treats you as a destination, not a stop along the way.

People will miss you when you start ignoring them like they did.

You know you really love someone, When you don’t hate them for breaking your heart.

A great relationship is about two things: first, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.

अनुभव का...

निर्माण नहीं हो सकता,

इसे समय देकर...

ही पाया जा सकता है..

अक्सर साथ यूं ही छूट जाया करते है

कभी दिल नहीं मिलता कभी मुकद्दर नहीं मिलता..!!

छोटा क़द बड़ी बात जायज़ है :

बड़ा क़द छोटी बात विफलता है।

'सचाई उनको क़तई मत बताओ, 

जो उसके क़ाबिल नहीं।'

"No One is Capable of Making you Upset without your Consent"

Never trust your fears. They don't know your strength.

Never trust your fears. They don't know your strength.

Life can't be changed in a minute ...

But

Decision taken in a minute changes everything in life...

Remember to 

Always Stay Calm before you Decide...

You can't plan life. 

Because no matter how perfect your plan is, 

life has a way to rearrange it.

"Sorry"

works when a mistake is made,

but not when trust is broken.

So in life, 

make mistakes but never break trust.

Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting and trusting again is 

sometimes Almost... impossible.

So much of what we learn about love is taught to us by people who never really loved us.

It’s okay to leave someone who doesn’t see the light that you see in yourself.

It’s okay to leave someone who doesn’t see the light that you see in yourself.

समंदर न सही पर एक नदी तो होनी चाहिएतेरे शहर में ज़िन्दगी कही तो होनी चाहिए.

मुझे ख़बर है कहानी को किसने उलझाया

मगर  मैं  चुप हूँ ये क़िरदार की ज़रूरत थी

और फिर धीरे-धीरे उनका लहज़ा बदलता गया.....

और दूर होते गए ..!

Sometimes you just have to stay silent because no words can explain how you feel.

मेरे बाद ..

किसी को

कोई गिला न रहे 

एहतियातन ...

समेट लिए हैं मैने ,

तमाम रिश्ते दुनिया से ....!

परमात्मा ने आपको 

सबसे अलग बनाया है, 

इसलिए... 

दूसरों जैसा 

बन कर अपनी 

वास्तविकता को नष्ट न करें..

Avoid people who deliberately say things to upset you.

खो देने बाद ही ख़याल आता है– कितना क़ीमती था .....

समय, व्यक्ति और सम्बंध...

If you don't start self-education, you're bound to repeat failures.

"The grass is always greener where you water it." -

अच्छी भूमिका...अच्छे लक्ष्य...औरअच्छे विचारों... वाले लोगों को,हमेशा याद किया जाता हैमन में भी...शब्दों में भी और....जीवन में भी..

[01/07, 7:18 am] Bansi Lal: “जो भाग्य में है वो भागकर आएगा, 

जो भाग्य में नहीं है वो आकर भी भाग जाएगा”

[01/07, 7:29 am] Bansi Lal: A toxic person will never change.

They just change victims and blame everything on everybody else.

[01/07, 8:30 pm] Bansi Lal: ख़ुद को बिखरने मत देना कभी किसी हाल में,

लोग गिरे हुए मकान की ईंटें तक ले जाते हैं..

[01/07, 8:32 pm] Bansi Lal: “क्रोध और आँधी दोनों बराबर होते हैं,

शांत होने के बाद ही पता चलता है कि नुकसान कितना हुआ है”

[01/07, 8:35 pm] Bansi Lal: शहर उमड़ेगा तुझे देखने को..

पर तुझे मलाल रहेगा कि हम नहीं आएंगे..!

[02/07, 8:18 am] Bansi Lal: Not everyone who comes into our life is meant to stay. So stop holding onto people who clearly don’t want to be with you.

[02/07, 8:13 pm] Bansi Lal: Learn to live

without the person 

you can’t live without.

[02/07, 8:15 pm] Bansi Lal: Life is not the way it's supposed to be.

 It's the way it is.

 The way you cope is what makes the difference.

[03/07, 12:37 pm] Bansi Lal: *CHANGE IS HARD AT FIRST,*

*MESSY IN THE MIDDLE*

AND 

*GORGEOUS AT THE END*

[03/07, 12:39 pm] Bansi Lal: People in your life:

1. Who helped you in difficult times.

2. Who left you in difficult times.

3. Who put in difficult times.

[03/07, 12:41 pm] Bansi Lal: The difference between simple and easy -

Simplifying anything - process, system, tools, organizations, or even relationships - is one of the most difficult things to do. Not surprisingly, most people choose the "easy" path - do nothing and maintain status quo.

What's simple isn't always easy.

[03/07, 2:02 pm] Bansi Lal: Criticizing people on their back is losers sign.

[03/07, 2:04 pm] Bansi Lal: इंसान की आधी ख़ूबसूरती उसकी वाणी में होती है।

*गुस्से के वक़्त थोड़ा रुक जाने से* *गलती के वक़्त थोड़ा झुक जाने से ज़िन्दगी आसान हो जाती है ..*

[27/06, 7:37 am] Bansi Lal: ठूँठ से लिपटी लताएँ हरी भरी होकर भी

उसके खोखलेपन को नहीं भर सकती।

[27/06, 7:38 am] Bansi Lal: भूल गए हो.......

या फिर

कमाल का सब्र रखते हो…?

[27/06, 7:39 am] Bansi Lal: शक से भी अक्सर खत्म हो जाते हैं कुछ रिश्ते

कसूर हर बार गलतियों  का नही होता

[27/06, 7:43 am] Bansi Lal: तुम इरादा तो करो

इल्ज़ाम हम ले लेंगे....!

[27/06, 7:44 am] Bansi Lal: A wise man can always be found alone. A weak man is always found in a crowd.

[27/06, 10:14 am] Bansi Lal: THE SECRET OF HAPPINESS,

YOU SEE, IS NOT FOUND IN SEEKING MORE,

BUT IN DEVELOPING THE CAPACITY TO ENJOY LESS.

*"SOCRATES"*

अधिकता कभी भी खुशी का पैमाना नहीं,

बल्कि कम को पूर्णतया प्राप्त करना और उसको उपयोग करना ही खुशी का पैमाना है।

[28/06, 11:10 am] Bansi Lal: मौसम बदले न बदले

हमें उम्मीद की

कम से कम

एक खिड़की तो खुली रखनी चाहिए।

[29/06, 10:36 am] Bansi Lal: अच्छी भूमिका...

अच्छे लक्ष्य...

और

अच्छे विचारों...                                         

वाले लोगों को,

हमेशा याद किया जाता है

मन में भी...शब्दों में भी और....

जीवन में भी..

समझदार इंसान जब रिश्ते निभाना बंद कर दे, तो समझ लो उसके आत्मसम्मान को कहीं न कहीं ठेस पहुंची है !!

[26/06, 11:02 am] Bansi Lal: असफलता

अनाथ होती है,

सफलता के

कई रिश्तेदार होते हैं

[26/06, 11:33 am] Bansi Lal: अधूरी हर कहानी है यहाँ ज़ौक ए तमाशा की

कभी नज़रें नहीं रहती ,कभी मन्ज़र नहीं रहता!!

[26/06, 11:35 am] Bansi Lal: *तन की खूबसूरती एक भ्रम है,* 

*सबसे खूबसूरत तो आपकी वाणी है,*

 *चाहे तो दिल जीत ले,*

   *चाहे तो दिल चीर दे...*

[26/06, 11:37 am] Bansi Lal: संसार में जितने प्रकार की प्राप्तियां हैं, 

शिक्षा सब से बढ़कर है!

[26/06, 11:39 am] Bansi Lal: समझदार इंसान जब रिश्ते निभाना बंद कर दे,

 तो समझ लो उसके आत्मसम्मान को कहीं न कहीं ठेस पहुंची है !!