मुझमें ये जो दिवानगी बेइंतहा नज़र आए क़सूर तेरा ही है क्युँ तू मुझमें बारहा नज़र आए

 [9:43 am, 24/06/2021] Bansi Lal: मुझमें ये जो दिवानगी बेइंतहा नज़र आए 

क़सूर तेरा ही है क्युँ तू मुझमें बारहा नज़र आए

[9:43 am, 24/06/2021] Bansi Lal: हमारा बड़प्पन सब देखते हैं, 

हमारी शर्म केवल हम ही देख पाते हैं।

[8:53 am, 25/06/2021] Bansi Lal: "STRESS"

IS NOT WHAT HAPPENS TO US. 

IT'S OUR RESPONSE TO WHAT HAPPENS. 

AND RESPONSE IS SOMETHING WE CAN CHOOSE.

आईना जब भी उठाया करो, पहले देखो... फिर दिखाया करो..

 [6:36 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: The meaning of life is you live and you die ....

BUT by the time you die, 

you've made the world a better place for someone or something.  

It could be for your family, it could be for the state, it could be for the nation, it could be for your friends....

the point is, the world became a better place because YOU were in it....

[6:43 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: आईना जब भी उठाया करो,

पहले देखो...

फिर दिखाया करो..

:बंसी

[6:46 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: जीवन मे हमेशा

एक दूसरे को 

समझने का प्रयत्न करिए

परखने के नही ।

[6:47 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: नाराज़ नहीं हूँ तेरे फ़रेब से….

ग़म ये है कि तेरा अब  यकीन कैसे करू…

[6:58 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: Don’t listen to yourself; 

listen to the advice that you give others.

[7:00 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: To attract attractive people, you must be attractive. 

To attract powerful people, you must be powerful. 

To attract committed people, you must be committed. Instead of going to work on them, you go to work on yourself.

 If you become, you can attract.

[7:01 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: The most painful thing is ....

losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much,

and forgetting that you are special too.

[7:03 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: The hardest part of letting go .....

is understanding that..... 

the other person is okay without you.

[7:06 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: “It is not the length of life, but the depth of life.” – Emerson

[7:07 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: Make sure you don’t start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. Know your worth even if they don’t.

[7:11 am, 23/06/2021] Bansi Lal: “Not everyone you lose is a loss.”

- Bansi

उनका अक्स ही मेरे अल्फाजों में झलकता है... जिनसे हम टूटकर बेपनाह मोहब्बत करते हैं...

 [8:30 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: उनका अक्स ही मेरे अल्फाजों में झलकता है...

जिनसे हम टूटकर बेपनाह मोहब्बत करते हैं...

[8:35 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: रिश्ते इसलिए नहीं सुलझ पाते हैं,

हम गैरों की बातों में आकर अपनों से उलझ जाते हैं..।

[8:41 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: पिघलती है आजकल किस्तों में ख़्वाहिशें

न तू काबिज़ हुआ न ख़्वाहिशें पूरी हुई

[8:42 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: स्पर्श वो नहीं 

जिसने शरीर को पाया हो !

स्पर्श वो है जिसने 

आत्मा को गले लगाया हो !

[8:43 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: आँधी ने तोड़ दी हैं दरख्तों की टहनियां,

कैसे कटेगी रात? परिंदे उदास हैं।

[8:44 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: शब्दों की ताकत बहुत होती है।

चयन के लिए, नम्रता जरूरी है

[8:48 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: "There are three kinds of lies:

lies, damned lies, and statistics." 

— Benjamin Disraeli

[8:56 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: “Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom.” - Thomas Jefferson

[9:01 am, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge. —Stephen Hawking

[6:24 pm, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: SOME PEOPLE WILL ONLY LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS THEY CAN USE YOU.

THEIR LOYALTY ENDS WHERE THE BENEFITS STOP.

[6:26 pm, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: You need Power, only when you want to do something Harmful,

Otherwise Love is Enough to get everything done.

-Charlie chaplin

[6:27 pm, 22/06/2021] Bansi Lal: Anything that happens is for good reason,

&

Anything that doesn't happen is only for better reason.....

गिरते हैं समुंदर में बड़े शौक़ से दरिया लेकिन किसी दरिया में समुंदर नहीं गिरता

 [8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: लाख तू हम को सता ले या डरा ले हम को,

ज़िन्दगी!  

तुझ  से  मगर  हार  नहीं मानेंगे!

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: गिरते   हैं   समुंदर  में बड़े शौक़  से  दरिया

लेकिन किसी दरिया में समुंदर नहीं गिरता

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: नौबत यहाँ तक आ पहुँची,

तो कहकर के भी फ़ायदा क्या..!

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: बिना विश्वास न , 

प्रेम संभव है न पार्थना..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: अपनी आदतों के 

अनुसार चलने में 

इतनी गलतिया नहीं होतीं,

जितनी 

दुनिया का लिहाज 

रखकर चलने में होती हैं..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: एक ही हादसा तो है और वो ये के आज तक

बात  नहीं  कही  गई  बात  नहीं  सुनी  गई...

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: आख़िर तो डूबना ही था काग़ज़ की नाव को.

इल्ज़ाम देते रहिए नदी के बहाव को...!!"

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Never be a prisoner of your past, 

it was just a lesson not a life sentence.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Some people

aren't speaking to you because they owe you an apology.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Never hurt that person whose only intension was to see you happy.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Nobody watches you harder than the people that don't like you. Give them a show.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Experience of life:

Keep Yourself busy with something or the other.....

Because ....

A busy person never has time to be unhappy !!!

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: To the mind that is still,

 the whole universe surrenders.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Have you noticed that when you refuse to be disrespected, people call you difficult.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Brigette Hya...th Following

Author of Leading the...

23h

A little patience, my dear. Keep going. Your time will come.

Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that will change your life.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that will change your life.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: When life changes to being harde change yourself to being stronger.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: harder

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: “You will never be truly happy if you continuously hold onto the things that make you sad.”

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: A single conversation across the table with a wise man is worth a months study of books.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: “It took me four years to paint like Raphael, but a lifetime to paint like a child.” ~ Pablo Picasso

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: #Rphael: an Italian painter.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Nobody wants to hear this, but sometimes the person you want most, is the person you’re best without.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: “Some cry with tears; others with thoughts.”

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: मत पूछ शीशे से उसके टूट जाने का वजह ,

उसने भी किसी पत्थर को अपना समझा होगा...

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: हमें कोई ना पहचान पाया करीब से,

कुछ अंधे थे कुछ अंधेरों में थे,,

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Now is the only Reality. 

All else is either memory or imagination

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: सब्र और शुक्र की आदत डालो......

महफूज़ रहोगे.....

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: जिस इंसान के पास 

समाधान करने की 

शक्ति जितनी 

ज्यादा होती है 

उसके रिश्तों का 

दायरा उतना ही 

विशाल होता है..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Move in silence.

The best revenge is massive success.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Writers, thinkers, and policy makers change society.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: 'Evaluate the people in your life; then promote, demote, or terminate. 

You're the CEO of your life!

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Throw your Past in Dustbin...

Keep your Present on your Table

&

Display future on the Notice Board.

You will be the most successful person on the earth..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: You CAN. End of story.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: ज़रूरी नही कोई बात चुभे ही

कभी कभी....

बात न होना भी चुभता है।

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: अच्छा वक़्त देखने के लिए बुरे वक़्त से लड़ना पड़ता है!

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: मज़ाक, चतुराई से किया गया अपमान है।

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: ग़म की चादर तो हटाओ ज़रा देखो बाहर

औरों के दर्द से तो दर्द तुम्हारा कम है

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: दीवारों में आये दरार तो... दीवारें गिर जाती हैं... 

रिश्तों में आये  दरार तो... दीवारे खड़ी हो...जाती हैं...!!!

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: " श्रेष्ठो हि पण्डितः शत्रुनं च मित्रमपण्डितः।" 

"विद्वान् शत्रु भी अच्छा होता है, किन्तु मूर्ख मित्र नहीं।"

~महर्षि वेदव्यास

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: धागे इतने मज़बूत चुनो,

की उसमे बार बार गांठ न लगानी पड़े..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: फिर मेरे हिस्से में आएगा समझौता कोई 

आज फिर कोई कह रहा था समझदार हो तुम।।

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: गलतियों से जुदा तू भी नहीं, मैं भी नही !!

दोनो इंसान हैं, खुदा तू भी नहीं, मैं भी नही !!

" तू मुझे और मैं तुझे इल्ज़ाम देते हैं मगर, 

अंदर जब झाँकता हुँ....., बेबफ़ा तू भी नहीं, मैं भी नहीं

" ग़लत फ़हमियों ने कर दी दोनो में पैदा दूरियाँ, 

वरना बुरा तो तू भी नही, मैं भी नही...!!

:बंसी

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Open your mind to all:

EYES ARE USELESS WHEN THE MIND IS BLIND.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Never waste a minute thinking.....

"Never waste a minute thinking about people you don't like."

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: If you want peace of mind,

 stop fighting with your thoughts.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: जो अच्छा लगे उसे ग्रहण करो

और जो बुरा लगे उसका त्याग कर दो,

फिर चाहे वह...

विचार हो,

कर्म हो, 

या मनुष्य..

:बंसी

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Work at your job and make a living, 

work on yourself and make a fortune.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: If you can stay positive in a negative situation, 

you're still winning.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: If you aren't big enough to stand criticism, 

you're too small to be praised. 

- Earl Deason

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Anybody can copy your exposed idea.

(But nobody can copy your style of imagination.)

: bansi

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: "A crow sat on a tree doing nothing... 

Wen a Rabbit thought to do d same & sat on the ground...

 (A tiger came n ate him..,)

MORAL:- To sit n do nothing... You need to be on TOP...."

❗bansi

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Paradox of life:

Just when your income starts reaching a point where food prices don't matter anymore, Calories start to matter...

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Never ignore a person who cares for you.

 Because someday you'll realize you've lost a diamond, while you were collecting stones.......

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: In a day, when you dont come across any problems,

 you can be sure that you are travelling in a wrong path

: Swami Vivekananda

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: " In pursuit of our dreams, we do not always need to have fuel to take us to that destination. 

Sometimes we just need fuel enough to take us to the next service station and fill up."

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life. 

- It goes on.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: I stopped explaining myself when I realized people only understand from their level of perception

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Don’t wander away from yourself 

to get close to someone else.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: No amount of money can make others speak well of you

behind your back.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: आशया हि किमिव न क्रियते ।

(आशा क्या नहीं करा लेती ?)

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: यूँ गलत भी नहीं होती चेहरों की तासीर लेकिन..

लोग वैसे भी नहीं होते जैसे नजर आते है..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: जब जिम्मेदारियां हाथ थामती है 

तो मोहब्बत भी बोझ लगती है..!!

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: खुली दिमाग़, खुली सोच रखनी चाहिए

पर इतना ज़्यादा भी दिमाग़ नहीं खोल देना चाहिए 

कि कोई भी अपना कचरा उसमें डाल दे..!!!

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: जिन्दगी!! जब कठिन समय में नाच नचाती हैं,

ढोलक बजाने वाले अपने जान पहचान वाले ही होते हैं!!

:बंसी

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: "Don’t judge a situation you’ve never been in."

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: शानदार  रिश्ते चाहिए तो उन्हें गहराई से निभाइये..

"लाजवाब मोती" कभी किनारों पे नही मिलते..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: वैचारिक मतभेद सामान्य बात है 

मनभेद संबंधों में विच्छेद कर देते हैं।।

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: सहजता से निभें,

वे ही रिश्ते सुखद हैं...

जिन्हें निभाना पड़े ....

वो दुनियादारी है ..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: रिश्तों की जमावट 

आज कुछ 

इस तरह हो रही है,

बहार से अच्छी 

सजावट और 

अन्दर से स्वार्थ की 

मिलावट हो रही है..

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: The greatest mistake you can make in life 

is to continually be afraid you will make one.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Just because you don’t see results after a day, or even a week, don’t give up. 

You may not see changes, but every smart choice you make is affecting you in ways you’d never imagine.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: If you have to beg someone to be in your life, 

they don’t deserve to be there.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: They start missing you when they fail to replace you.

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: #सच 💓

जब इंसान की ज़रूरत

बदल जाती है

उसका बात करने का

अंदाज़ भी

बदल जाता है

[8:53 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: गलतियां सुधारने का मौका उस दिन बंद

हो जाता 

है.. 

जिस दिन हाथ में पेन्सिल की जगह पैन

आ जाता 

है!

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: फिर उसके बाद कुछ भी सुनाया न जा सका..

जिसपे हँसे थे लोग.. वो रोने की बात थी..!

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: There are all kinds of love in the world,

 but never the same love twice.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: You cannot always be happy but you can always be brave. And that is the beginning of everything.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much and forgetting that you are special too.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: तू हँस कर कोई चाल तो चल…..

हार जाने का हौसला अब भी है मुझमें !

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: जिसका उदय होना निश्चित है,

उसके लिए प्रकृति भी रास्ता बना देती है...!!

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Integrity is the most valuable and respected quality of leadership.

Always keep your word.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: When you are good person,

you a don't lose people they lose you.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: A surplus of effort could overcome a deficit of confidence.

If it's a good idea, go ahead and do it.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Your title doesn't get you respect as a leader...

Your character does.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Sometimes quitting becomes more important than continuing.

And it takes courage to do that.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Never push a loyal person to the point 

where they no longer care....

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: भरोसा टूटने की आवाज़ नही होती है 

उसकी गूँज जिदंगी भर सुनाई देती है 

फिर माफ़ी का मतलब ही नही रहता..!!

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: बिछड़ते वक्त सारी बुराइयां गिनाई उसने 

सोच रहा हूँ जब मिले थे तो कौन सा हुनर था मुझमें ??

बंसी

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: किसी भी व्यक्ति को ज्यादा सुधारने की कोशिश करोगे ...

तो वो आपका दुश्मन बन जायेगा ... ।।

बंसी

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: वज़ह कुछ भी न थी सिर्फ गलतफैमियों के सिवा,

मै सुलझाने की कोशिश करता.....

उस लम्हे से पहले तुम अलविदा कह गए....

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: समुन्दर को मुक़द्दर मानती है 

हर नदी अपना,

समुन्दर समझता कब

है... नदी को कुछ...!!

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: जाने कितने रिश्ते....!!_

बिना फेरों के भी एक दूसरे के होते हैं..!

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: Correction:

When you are a good person,

you don't lose people they lose you.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: IF YOU WANT TO FLY WITH THE EAGLES, 

YOU HAVE TO STOP SWIMMING WITH THE DUCKS.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: IF YOU HAVE LIVED IN HEARTS, 

YOU ARE NOT ORDINARY.

[8:54 pm, 21/06/2021] Rajesh B: ना उड़ाओ परिंदों को मुंडेर से अपनी, 

ना जाने कौन आया हो बिछड़ के अपनों से!

अहंकार के वृक्ष पर विनाश का ही फल लगता है

 A fear is another form of an excuse

 जो कह दिया वह शब्द थे...

जो नहीं कह सके 

वह अनुभूति थी...

और

जो कहना है,

फिर भी नहीं कह सकते वह मर्यादा है..

बुद्धिमान लोग प्यार नहीं करते। 

वे बस प्यार का इस्तेमाल करते है।

 सिलसिले तोड़ गया वो सभी जाते- जाते,

वरना इतने तो मरासिम थे के आते - जाते.

 जलते घर को देखने वालों फूस का छप्पर आपका है

आपके पीछे तेज़ हवा है आगे मुकद्दर आपका है

उस के क़त्ल पे मैं भी चुप था मेरा नम्बर अब आया

मेरे क़त्ल पे आप भी चुप है अगला नम्बर आपका है...

बिखर जाने की ख्वाइश तो थी हमारी उस फूल पर...

 जो उगता तो था मंदिर ही के पास, पर चढ़ावे के वो काबिल न था!

 क्यों रोता है उसके जाने से तू क्या तलाश करता है? 

जुगनू का इंतज़ार कोई भला चिराग जला के करता है?

I’m learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me.

हाल पूछती नही दुनिया जिंदा लोगो का

चले आते जनाजो पे बारात की तरह

अहंकार के वृक्ष पर 

विनाश का ही फल लगता है

चुप्पी की आँखें अलग होती हैं...

वे देखती कम और सोचती ज़्यादा हैं।

इश्क़ के चर्चे भले ही सारी दुनिया में होते होंगे..

पर दिल तो ख़ामोशी से ही टूटते हैं..

आकाश का कोई रंग नहीं होता-

नीलापन उसका फ़रेब है।

उनका इल्जाम लगाने का अंदाज ही

कुछ गजब का था

हम खुद अपने ही 

खिलाफ गवाही दे बैठे

 There's always a way - if you're committed.

 Quality means doing it right 

when no one is looking.

 Focus:

ON THE PEOPLE

WHO INSPIRE

YOU, 

NOT THE

ONES WHO

ANNOY YOU.

 एक एक कर इतनी कमियां निकाली लोगों ने मुझमें, 

की अब बस "खुबियां" ही रह गयी हैं मुझमें...

Be Careful when you follow the Masses,

Because sometimes, the 'M' is silent...

When you focus on yourself, and love yourself, some relationships have to go.

Start working on you. 

The things that aren't meant for you will start falling away.

A friend of mine send a massage, it is worthwhile to share with you all:-

वनवास में विरह का दर्द उर्मिला से पूछो, सीता से पूछोगे तो धर्म ही बताएगी

मोहब्बत का अर्थ राधा से पूछो, रुक्मिणी से पूछोगे तो अधिकार ही बताएगी

सेवा का मतलब श्रवण कुमार से पूछो, हनुमान जी से पूछोगे तो आनंद ही बताएँगे

और ज़हर का स्वाद शिव से पूछो, मीरा से पूछोगे तो अमृत ही बताएगी.

लोकडॉन का अर्थ गरीबो से पूछो, अमीर से पूछोगे तो मजा ही बताएंगे।

जो टूट गया वो भरोसा था..!!!!

जो बाकी रहा वो बहाने हैं....!!!!!

मैं इसलिए दुखी नहीं हूँ

कि तुमने मुझसे झूठ बोला,

मैं इसलिए दुखी हूँ

कि अब मैं तुम पर विश्वास नहीं कर सकता..!!!

Strong people have strong weaknesses.

लोग किरदार की जानिब भी नज़र रखते हैं 

सिर्फ़ दस्तार से इज़्ज़त नहीं मिलने वाली...

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing everything with logic. 

True power is restraint.

If words control you that means

everyone else can control you.

Breathe and allow things to pass.

True love is like ghosts, 

which everybody talks about and few have seen.

If fifty million people say a foolish thing,

 it is still a foolish thing.

“You can beat 40 scholars with one fact,

but you can’t beat one idiot with 40 facts.”

भय है तो ज्ञान है अधूरा अभी।

अपेक्षा सदैव उपेक्षा की तरफ़ ले जाती है ।

मैं दिया हूँ! 

मेरी दुश्मनी तो सिर्फ अँधेरे से हैं,

हवा तो बेवजह ही मेरे खिलाफ हैं....!!

जिन्हें मनाने के लिए बहुत सारे लोग होते हैं... 

उनकी नाराज़गी ख़त्म ही नहीं होती!

सफलता के लिए सिर्फ कल्पना ही नहीं,

सार्थक कर्म भी जरूरी है

सीढ़ियों को देखते रहना ही पर्याप्त नहीं है,

सीढ़ियों पर चढ़ना भी जरूरी है..

bansi

हम ज़िन्दगी में बहुत कुछ खो देते है ......

" नहीं " जल्दी बोल कर......

और

"हाँ " देर से बोल कर ।

 दूसरों को नीचा दिखाने के चक्कर में इंसान खुद, कब, कितना नीचे आ जाता है, 

उसको पता ही नहीं चलता...

ध्यान रखिये

 Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.

इरादा हो अटल तो मो'जिज़ा ऐसा भी होता है 

दिए को ज़िंदा रखती है हवा ऐसा भी होता है

You can only grow if you’re willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.

 तुमने जाना था.....और मैंने जानें दिया...

इससे अच्छी वफ़ादारी मिलेगी कहीं.....

 When you're happy, you enjoy the music but when you're sad, you understand the lyrics.

 पानी आँख में भर कर लाया जा सकता है

अब भी जलता शहर बचाया जा सकता है

दिल को हज़ार बार चीखने चिल्लाने दीजिए!

जो आप का नहीं है उसे जाने दीजिए!

 किसी में कोई कमी दिखाई दे तो उसे समझाओ

लेकिन, हर किसी में कमी दिखाई दे तो खुद को समझाओ

 You can only grow if you’re willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.

 Never be happy unless you have done your best.....

Leadership is not just what happens when you're there, it's what happens when you're not.

 If you truly want to achieve

something,

Always remember, the path is visible even in darkness.

 Build relationships without

expectations.

LESSONS IN LIFE WILL BE REPEATED

UNTIL THEY ARE LEARNED

 Look at your daily habits and ask yourself if they are causing you to evolve or revolve. 

Are you moving forward, or just moving in circles?

"I have nothing in common with lazy people who blame others for their lack of success. Great things come from hard work and perseverance. No excuses

Dedication sees dreams come true!"

The worst distance between two people is misunderstanding.

मैं  सोचता  हूँ  बहुत  ज़िंदगी के बारे में 

ये ज़िंदगी भी मुझे सोच कर न रह जाए

 चिराग़ के जलने से फ़क़त उजाला नहीं होता 

अँधेरा भी लाज़िमी होता कुछ असर के लिये

 बादलों की ओट से सूरज निकलने वाला है

सफर जारी रखो, वक्त बदलने वाला है...

“फूलों की हँसी के ख़िलाफ़ 

ज़ंजीरें खनखना रही हैं 

और रिश्ते— 

मुहावरा बदलने की फ़िराक़ में हैं!”

 We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.

At the end of the day, am thankful that my blessings are bigger than my problems.

At the end of the day, I am thankful that my blessings are bigger than my problems.

When you experience setbacks, be happy for the experience because this is a prelude to bigger and better things that will come your way.

 "Not life, but good life, is to be chiefly valued." 

~ Socrates

कहते हैं कि एक गलतफहमी अच्छे से अच्छे रिश्ते को भी तोड़ देती है..

लेकिन वह रिश्ता अच्छा कैसे हुआ जो एक गलतफहमी से टूट जाता है..!

 Maturity is when you know the other person is lying but you smile and let it go.

People won't notice the:

- late nights

- early mornings

- self-doubt

- failures

- obstacles

- risks taken

- money invested

They will only see your results and call you lucky.

Don't expect them to understand.

 Sometimes you have to eat your words, chew your ego, swallow your pride and accept that you are wrong. It's not giving up. It's called growing up.

When looking back doesn’t interest you any more you’re doing something right.

 You may turn a bad idea into a good idea — don't kill the bad idea prematurely. A bad idea can evolve into a good idea.

When it rains -  look for rainbows. When it's dark - look for stars.

Make sure you don’t start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. Know your worth even if they don’t.

Make sure you don’t start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. Know your worth even if they don’t.

"Wisdom is what's left after we've run out of personal opinions." — Cullen Hightower

“You are not responsible for other people’s happiness and they are not responsible for yours.”

- Bryant MCGill 

“Not everyone you lose is a loss.”

- Unknown 

SOME PEOPLE WILL ONLY LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS THEY CAN USE YOU.THEIR LOYALTY ENDS WHERE THE BENEFITS STOP.

Letting go of anything be it feelings, memories, people is very hard but it's important to move forward.

Life is all about change, evolution and adaptation.

So accepting the change and letting go is of utmost importance.

Negative people and emotions, drain our energy and keep us down.

To fly high and move forward, let go of all this.

Let it go.. Let it goooooo

उनका अक्स ही मेरे अल्फाजों में झलकता है...जिनसे हम टूटकर बेपनाह मोहब्बत करते हैं..

You are free to choose, but you are not free from the consequence of your choice.

Create your identity in such a way Where people surely realize that ignoring or leaving you is only their loss.

If u understand these lines, u can change a lot in life.

"Do not get upset with people or situations...

Both are powerless without ur reaction.."

If you focus on failure, you can never succeed. 

If you focus on being hurt in a relationship, you can never be loved.

Whatever you focus on, you creat.....

I know-better than anyone-that once someone's made up her mind to leave you, there's nothing you can do to make her stay.

You are free to choose, but you are not free from the consequence of your choice.

Walk away...from arguments that lead you to anger. Walk away from people who deliberately put you down. Walk away from pleasing people who never see your worth. Walk away from any thought that undermines your peace of mind. Walk away from judgmental people who do not know your struggle or what you've been through. Walk away from your mistakes and fears, they don't determine your fate. The more you walk away from things that poison your soul, the healthier you will be.

Create your identity in such a way Where people surely realize that ignoring or leaving you is only their loss.Live with uniqueness and dignity.

Success is neither magical or mysterious. Success is the natural consequence of good habits.

Your title doesn't get you respect as a leader...

Your character does.

No matter how educated, talented, rich, or cool you believe you are, how you treat people ultimately tells all.

Integrity is

Buddha was asked,

What have you gained from meditation? He replied, 'Nothing'. However, let me tell you what I lost: Anger; Anxiety, Depression, Insecurity, Fear of old age and death.

I don't trust anyone who's nice to me but rude to the waiter. Because they would treat me the same way if I were in that position.

What others think about you is not important. What you think about yourself means everything.

जीवन में इतने व्यस्त रहिए कि

पछतावा, डर, दुख, नफरत के

लिए टाइम ही ना रहे याद रखें जीवन में खाली व्यक्ति ही सबसे ज्यादा दुखी रहता है...

अपने बारे में कभी बुरा मत सोचो...

क्यूँकि भगवान ने ये काम हमारे रिश्तेदार और पड़ोसियों को दिया हैं...

When you understand everything you can forgive everything.

Leo Tolstoy

Sometimes quitting becomes more important than continuing.

And it takes courage to do that.

It's always the wrong person who teaches you the right things in life

Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.

Create your identity in such a way,

Where people surely realize that ignoring or leaving you is only their loss.

Live with uniqueness and dignity.

Greta Dsouza. 1stHead- Recruitments...13h.People are like Books...Some Deceive Us with Their Cover...&Others Surprise Us with Their Content..!!!Beware to Succumb !!!

Can you hear a pin drop?What is the meaning of pin drop silence?Following are some instances when silence could speak louder than voice.

Can you hear a pin drop?

What is the meaning of pin drop silence?

Following are some instances when silence could speak louder than voice.

Take 1:

Field Marshal Sam Bahadur Maneckshaw once started addressing a public meeting at Ahmedabad in English.

The crowd started chanting, "Speak in Gujarati.

We will hear you only if you speak in

Gujarati."

Field Marshal Sam Bahadur

Maneckshaw stopped.

Swept the audience with a hard stare and replied,

"Friends, I have fought many a battle in my long career. 2

I have learned Punjabi from men of the Sikh Regiment;

Marathi from the Maratha Regiment;

Tamil from the men of the Madras

Sappers;

Bengali from the men of the Bengal

Sappers,

Hindi from the Bihar Regiment; and Even Nepali from the Gurkha Regiment.

Unfortunately there was no soldier from Gujarat from whom I could have learned Gujarati."... (Now the Indian army has in grenadiers regiment).

You could have heard a pin drop

Take 2:

Soon after getting freedom from British rule in 1947, the de-facto prime minister of India, Jawahar Lal Nehru called a meeting of senior Army Officers to select the first General of the Indian army.

Nehru proposed, "I think we should appoint a British officer as a General of The Indian Army, as we don't have enough experience to lead the same."

Having learned under the British, only to serve and rarely to lead, all the civilians and men in uniform present nodded their heads in agreement.

However one senior officer, Nathu Singh Rathore, asked for permission to speak.

to speak.

Nehru was a bit taken aback by the

independent streak of the officer,

though, he asked him to speak

freely.

Rathore said, "You see, sir, we don't have enough experience to lead a nation too, so shouldn't we appoint a British person as the first Prime Minister of India?"

You could hear a pin drop.

After a pregnant pause, Nehru asked Rathore, "Are you ready to be the first General of The Indian Army?"..

Rathore declined the offer saying "Sir, we have a very talented army officer, my senior, Gen. Cariappa, who is the most deserving among us."

This is how the brilliant Gen.

Cariappa became the first General and Rathore the first ever Lt. General of the Indian Army.

When passionate employees become quiet, it usually sends a signal that the work environment has become very dysfunctional.

Arguing with stupid people is like trying to kill mosquito on your cheek.

You may or may not kill it, but you will slap yourself.

Everything happens for a reason

Sometimes the reason is you're stupid!

That which offends you only weakens you.

Being offended creates the same destructive energy that offended you in the first place

so transcend your ego and stay in peace.

KNOW THAT NOBODY CAN SEE THEMSELVES OBJECTIVELY.

When you play a match, it is statistically proven that players actually have the ball three or four minutes on average. The important thing is what you do during those 87 minutes without the ball. Football is a brain game, where to run, when to run, when to cover when to press, when to move, how to move, it is decisions like these that come from the brain that determines whether you're a good player or not. 

A surplus of effort could overcome a deficit of confidence.

If it's a good idea, go ahead and do it.

Don't waste your energy trying to change opinions.

Do your thing and DO NOT care if they like it.

Manuel S...llig. 2nd

Happiness depends On your mindset and attitude

Learn to live without the person you can’t live without.

I don't care what your mind says: You deserve to be happy.

After silence, that which comes nearest to expressing the inexpressible is music.                  

        

Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places. - Unknown

People may hate you for being different and not living by society's standards, but deep down, they wish they had the courage to do the same.

यूँ गलत भी नहीं होती चेहरों की तासीर लेकिन..

लोग वैसे भी नहीं होते जैसे नजर आते है..

तक़दीर का ये खेल भी कितना अजीब है 

मंज़िल  के पास आ के बहुत दूर हो गये 

वक्त बीत जाने के बाद अहसास होता है कि ..

पापा..हर बात सही बोलते थे....!!

Please don’t expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.

Make sure you don’t start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. Know your worth, even if they don’t.

The worst distance between two people is misunderstanding.

It’s very strange that the people you love are often the people you’re most cruel to.

कभी भी उनसे मित्रता मत कीजिए जो आपसे कम या ज्यादा प्रतिष्ठा के हों. ऐसी मित्रता कभी आपको ख़ुशी नहीं देगी।

~ चाणक्य

नजाने कौन सी साज़िशो का हम जितना साफ दिल रखा उतने ही हम दागदार हुएशिकार हुए

न जाने कौन सी साज़िशो का हम शिकार हुए

जितना साफ दिल रखा उतने ही हम दागदार हुए

कुत्तों की तरह ज़िस्म छूने से मोहब्बत नहीं होती, 

इश्क़ वो जज़्बा हैं जिसे लोग ईमान कहते हैं।...

गलतियों से जुदा तू भी नहीं, मैं भी नही !!

दोनो इंसान हैं, खुदा तू भी नहीं, मैं भी नही !!

" तू मुझे और मैं तुझे इल्ज़ाम देते हैं मगर, 

अंदर जब झाँकता हुँ....., बेबफ़ा तू भी नहीं, मैं भी नहीं

" ग़लत फ़हमियों ने कर दी दोनो में पैदा दूरियाँ, 

वरना बुरा तो तू भी नही, मैं भी नही...!!

Open your mind to all:

EYES ARE USELESS WHEN THE MIND IS BLIND.

सौभाग्यशाली होते हैं वो लोग जिन्हें 'समय' और 'समझ' एक साथ मिलती है।

 क्योंकि अक्सर 'समय' पर 'समझ' नहीं आती, और जब 'समझ' आती है तो 'समय' हाथ से निकल जाता है !

The only bird that dares to peck an eagle is the raven. It sits on the eagle's back and bites its neck. However, the eagle doesn't respond or fight with the raven. It does not spend time or energy with the raven. It just opens its wings and begins to fly higher in the sky. The higher the flight, the harder it is for the raven to breathe and the raven eventually falls due to lack of oxygen. Not all battles you need to respond to. Not all arguments or critics you need to respond to or answer back. Just lift up a standard, they'll fall off! Stop wasting time with the 'ravens'. Just take them to your height and they'll fade away.

HAPPINESS DOES NOT DEPEND ON WHAT YOU HAVE OR WHO YOU ARE.

 IT SOLELY RELIES ON WHAT YOU THINK.

Opinions aren't facts. Stop worrying....

Never waste a minute thinking.....

"Never waste a minute thinking about people you don't like."

Always believe something amazing is about to happen!

Direction is so much more important than speed.

"Leadership is the capacity to translate vision into reality"

Great leaders forge its leadership in the small details.

A leader is one who knows the way. goes the way, and shows the way.

If you want peace of mind, stop fighting with your thoughts.

ज़िन्दगी में लोगों का आना भी एक

मक़सद होता है.. 

कुछ तुम्हें "आजमाएंगे"

 कुछ तुम्हें "सिखाएंगे" 

कुछ तुम्हारा "इस्तेमाल करेंगे" 

 कुछ तुम्हें "जीने का सही मतलब भी बताएंगे..

जो अच्छा लगे उसे ग्रहण करो

और जो बुरा लगे उसका त्याग कर दो, 

फिर चाहे वह 

विचार हो, 

कर्म हो, 

या मनुष्य..

If you get that gut feeling that something isn’t right about a person or situation, trust it.

If you don’t fit in, you’re probably doing the right thing.

Sometimes when you’re in a dark place you think you’ve been buried, but actually you’ve been planted.

Millions of people have decided not to be sensitive. They have grown thick skins around themselves just to avoid being hurt by anybody. But it is at great cost. Nobody can hurt them, but nobody can make them happy either.

Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.

You become what you surround yourself with. Energies are contagious. Choose carefully. Your environment will become you.

If people knew how hard I worked to achieve my mastery, it wouldn’t seem so wonderful after all. - Michelangelo

Never expect anything in return from anyone. But the truth is when we really love someone, we naturally expect a little care and love from them.

Don’t ever feel bad for making a decision that upsets other people. You are not responsible for their happiness. You are responsible for your happiness.

A beautiful thing is never perfect.

It’s important to do what’s best for you, whether people approve of it or not. This is your life. You know what’s good for you.

Other people’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.

I was willing to fight for you, for us, but you gave me every reason not to.

Do not be afraid to walk the path that you must go just because you cannot see the end. The path becomes clearer as you continue to go on.

One of the best lessons you can master in life is to master how to remain calm.

To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong. - Joseph Chilton Pearce

हर बात दिल से लगाओगे तो रोते रह जाओगे...इसलिए जो जैसा है उसके साथ वैसा बनकर रहो...!!

People may hate you for being different and not living by society's standards, but deep down, they wish they had the courage to do the same.

जो अच्छा लगे उसे ग्रहण करोऔर जो बुरा लगे उसका त्याग कर दो,फिर चाहे वह...विचार हो,कर्म हो, या मनुष्य..:बंसी

*Don't make quick judgements on others.*

Here is a nice story.

A young couple moved into a new neighborhood.

The next morning while they were eating breakfast, the young woman saw her neighbor hanging the washing outside.

"That laundry is not very clean; she doesn't know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap."

Her husband looked on, remaining silent.

Every time her neighbor hung her washing out to dry, the young woman made the same comments.

A month later, the woman was surprised to see a nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband, "Look, she's finally learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this?"

The husband replied, "I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows."

And so it is with life... What we see when watching others depends on the clarity of the window through which we look.

So don't be too quick to judge others, especially if your perspective of life is clouded by anger, jealousy, negativity or unfulfilled desires.

*"Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who you are."*

जिंदगी में सब कुछ फिर से मिल सकता है लेकिन वक्त के साथ खोया हुआ रिश्ता फिर नही मिल सकता..☘️

It’s important to do what’s best for you, whether people approve of it or not. This is your life. You know what’s good for you.

When you are your own best friend, you don’t endlessly seek out relationships, friendships, and validation from the wrong sources because you realize that the only approval and validation you need is your own.

Once you have started seeing the beauty of life, ugliness starts disappearing. If you start looking at life with joy, sadness starts disappearing. You cannot have heaven and hell together, you can have only one. It is your choice.

My mum brought me up to think that personal happiness is more important than your family.

"Everybody wants to go to the heaven but nobody wants to die".

"Everybody wants to go to the heaven but nobody wants to die".

Everyone wants to be successful but very few are willing to do the little things every day that will eventually lead them to what they want.

Many of us are complaining because no one gives us what we want; a chance! A relationship! A job!

Who is going to give us that & why they will?

No amount of begging or wanting something will help us getting what we want. This is the reality!

"Life responds to deserve and not to need." - Jim Rohn

No one is coming to save us. Our life is 100% our responsibility.

Time is going to pass no matter what we do or fail to do.

Our life and destiny are shaped by the decisions we make and the actions we take, or fail to take.

Even "If we choose not to decide we still have made a choice."

BE SO HAPPY THAT WHEN OTHERS LOOK AT YOU, THEY BECOME HAPPY TOO

Now is the only Reality. All else is either memory or imagination

BE SO HAPPY THAT WHEN OTHERS LOOK AT YOU, THEY BECOME HAPPY TOO

Vedic Seers Knew:

The ancient vedic seers knew,

that if you are strong, you will overcome all challenges coming your way and everything will be alright. Problems arise if either you become weak or you develop fear. In bhagwat geeta, its said that to solve any problem in life, the first step is to accept it, and then transcend it. Do not cling with the problem and do not run away. You have a duty to perform. Do your duty, fight the challenges and overcome them. Accepting in no way means, having them as part of your life and not doing anything about them, acceptin here means that the challenge is acknowledged, transcended and then one goes about doing what needs to be done for its resolve. Its said that if you haven't done any wrong and your intentions areright, you will always be strong. And when you are strong everything will be all right. Being strong you always move ahead, accepting, transcending and solving all your challenges and being a winner all along. Continuously enhancing joy abundance and well being in your life and your world. Good morning have being strong and setting things right day ahead

Two life lessons I shared with my Never complain: Never. Ever. Eventeam recently:if it is the worst day of your life to date. It robs us of our power and tricks us into believing that we don't have any.Trust: Trust people for what they say. Living life with that sense of awe and wonder, to never let doubt creep in. If someone else's lies comfort them, what's the point for us to be discomforted by that?Two extremes. Never and always. The balance that forms takes care of everything else.

Two life lessons I shared with my Never complain: Never. Ever. Even

team recently:

if it is the worst day of your life to date. It robs us of our power and tricks us into believing that we don't have any.

Trust: Trust people for what they say. Living life with that sense of awe and wonder, to never let doubt creep in. If someone else's lies comfort them, what's the point for us to be discomforted by that?

Two extremes. Never and always. The balance that forms takes care of everything else.

A mistake that makes you humble is better than an achievement that makes you Arrogant.

Patience is the toughest road

to stay on,

But the surest path to VICTORY.

छोटी-छोटी बातो पर वही लोग गुस्सा करते है, जिन्हें हमारी फिक्र होती है..

सच्चाई हमेशा खामोश रहने वाले इंसान के अंदर ही मिलती है झूठ बोलने वाले तो हमेशा शोर मचाते रहते है।

A mistake that makes you humble is better than an achievement that makes you Arrogant.

A little patience, my dear. Keep going. Your time will come.*Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that will change your life.*

Ability is a good thing, but stability is even better...

The only reason why the earth has gravity is to remind us to keep our feet on the ground in all situations of our life..!

Anything that happens is for a Good reason.

Anything that doesn't happen is only for a Better reason.

Trust these words you'll love your Life ....

Seek respect not attention. It lasts longer.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.

Only those who care about you can hear you when you are quiet.

Some changes happen deep down Inside of you. And the truth is only you know about them.

How long they choose to love you will never be your decision.

How to Break free of Addiction to Approval

1. Recognise that other people do not determine your worth and value. It’s your life not there’s. They are responsible to themselves for their life; and you are responsible to yourself for your life. Don’t give up your “self” to please someone else.  

2. Also, people change, have different values and outlooks and want different things for, and from, us. It’s simply impossible to please everyone all of the time, or even most of the time.  

3. Recognise that spending our lives trying to make others happiness is a recipe for failure and low self-esteem. It’s a pointless way to spend your life. It will stop you being happy and true to yourself.  

4. Be kind to yourself. Understand that we all have weaknesses, and things that we regret saying and doing.  

5. Also, we’re all on our journey – and the journey is harder and more challenging for some than others. Perhaps you are dealing with obstacles that other people have not had to face.  

6. Develop your self esteem from within. Decide on the type of person YOU want to be, and work on being true to that.  

7. Think about what really matters to you, and the different goals you’d like to achieve – then set these as a priority. That is, decide what YOU want to do instead of worrying about what others would like you to do.  

8. Develop a plan for the direction of your life. Focus your thinking, energy, choices and decisions around living a life that is meaningful to you. At the end of each day, check to ensure you’ve done something that is taking you in that direction.  

9. Work on developing your self-reliance – so that although it is nice to have help and support from others, you’re not dependent upon it (or them). Also, being able to think, act and choose for yourself will greatly increase your self-confidence.  

10. Work on accepting, valuing and loving yourself. Appreciate the good things about YOU. Notice your successes, and any moves towards living out your goals, and becoming the real you.  

11. Choose to live in the moment. Decide not to keep going over the past, or worrying too much about what lies ahead. Notice and relish what is good about “right now”.  

12. Choose joy. Allowing yourself to experience joy is freeing, motivating, energising. It keeps your focus on the positives in life.

Loving you was like going to war, I never came back the same.

The way they leave tells you everything.

“Don’t let the same dog bite you twice.”

- Chuck Berry 

“Never cry for the same reason twice.”

- Stephen Richards 

Some relationships just end. Like a star, they burn bright and brilliant, and then nothing in particular goes wrong, they just reach their end. They burn out.

The prettier the garden, the dirtier the hands of the gardener.

You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him. 

“When everyone tells you you’re wrong and you turn out to be right, you learn a dangerous lesson: Never listen to warnings." 

Don't waste your time trying to get people to love you. Spend your time with those who already do.

Pay attention when people react with anger of hostility to your boundaries. You have found the edge where their respect for you ends.

“A bad relationship is like standing on broken glass, if you stay you will keep hurting. If you walk away, you will hurt but eventually you will heal.”

- Autumn Kohler 

वो अहसास पुराने हो गये,

जब तू मेरा था,

वो ख्वाब टूटकर बिखर गये,

जिनका तुझसे वास्ता था,

वो राहें अजनबी हो गयी,

जहां तेरा मेरा राब्ता था!!

जो बीत गये है दिन वो ज़माने नही आते

मिलते है नये लोग पुराने लोग नही आते..!

कुछ जगहों से आगे बढ़ जाना चाहिए, भले ही बढ़ पाना कितना भी मुश्किल क्यूँ ना हो।

क्यों मुझमें ढूंढता है वह पहला सा ऐतबार

जब उसकी ज़िन्दगी में कोई और आ गया

हर किसी के पास, अपने अपने मायने हैं..

खुद को छोड़,सिर्फ दूसरों के लिये आईने हैं...

... वक़्त रहते जो नहीं समझते, उन्हें वक़्त क़ीमत वसूल कर समझा देता है...

Silence lets you regain the lost confidence.

वफ़ा की जंग मत करना बहुत बेकार जाती है

ज़माना जीत जाता है मोहब्बत हर जाती है...

क्रोध अत्यंत कठोर होता है.!

वह मौन को सहन नहीं कर सकता..!!

I think we all wish we could erase some dark times in our lives. But all of life's experiences, bad and good, make you who you are. Erasing any of life's experiences would be a great mistake.

I think we all wish we could erase some dark times in our lives. 

But all of life's experiences, bad and good,

make you who you are. Erasing any of life's experiences would be a great mistake. 

How to be More Thick skinned

1. Don’t take criticism personally. Instead, realize that criticism says more about them than it does about you.  

2. Distinguish between facts and subjectivity. Most criticisms are just personal opinions. They are not objective and they don’t reflect the truth.  

3. Look at the beliefs you hold about yourself. Do you feel defensive and under attacked because you don’t believe in yourself?  

4. Learn what you can from any comments that are made – and discard the rest as being useless information.  

5. Decide not to ruminate on barbs or criticisms - as that will reinforce the message in your brain.  

6. Choose to spend more time with people who’re affirming – 

and minimise the time you spend with those who put you down.  

7. Look for a role model who can handle criticism –

and try to copy them, 

so you become more thick skinned, too.

So do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to life? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More Compassionate? Deside. Breathe in. Breathe out and decide.

Life is about balance. 

Be kind, but don’t let people abuse you. 

Trust, but don’t be deceived. 

Be content, but never stop improving yourself.

Be careful what you tell people. 

A friend today could be an enemy tomorrow.

It’s the things we love most, that destroy us.

Celebrate every win,

no matter how small.

So do it. Decide. 

Is this the life you want to life? 

Is this the person you want to love? 

Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? 

More Compassionate? Deside. 

Breathe in. Breathe out and decide.

"If you can't explain it to a six year old, you don't understand it yourself."

Truth

You can not be perfect without making mistakes. You can not get success without facing failures.

You can not feel happiness without being sad.

Everything comes in a pair and 

you can never get one without facing the other.

Just do it:-

"You can't build a reputation on what you're going to do

THIS FALLEN TREE REFUSED TO DIE, INSTEAD GREW 4 MORE TREES OUT OF ITSELF.

THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DON'T QUIT!

If you do not believe in yourself, 

no one will do it for you.

When there is no enemy within,

the enemies outside cannot hurt you.

#African Proverb

The number one reason people fail in life is

because

they listen to their friends, family, and neighbors.

Nobody has a Perfect Life!

Everybody has their own problems!

Some people just know ...

How to Deal with it in a Better Way!

A better version of us does not exist. It is being created.

We can mindfully craft it and get a version of our choice or

let Time create one of its choice.

Never stop showing someone 

how much they mean to you.

"Do not blame God for having created the tiger,

but thank Him for not giving it wings"

Once my mom said:

Insaan batein clear wahin karta hai, 

jahan usey rishta rakhna ho !

Warna toh log kehte hai,

acha hua jaan chutti

And this hit me hard....

इंसान बातें क्लियर वहीं करता है... 

जहाँ उसे रिश्ता रखना होता हो। 

वरना तो लोग कहते हैं 

अच्छा हुआ जान छुटि।। 

A dreamdoesn't become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work.GET..SET..GO.!

Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change.

Relations

are like electric currents. Wrong connection will give you shocks throughout your life. 

But the right ones will light up your life.

Every phase of our life is bound to teach us something valuable;

But it depends on whether we analyse the lessons or just turn the pages.

You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, 

and that person is not to be found anywhere.

You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection

The most important thing in life is honesty, integrity, hard work, family, 

......never forgetting where we came from.

A dream

doesn't become reality through magic;

 it takes sweat, determination and hard work.

GET..SET..GO.!

EDUCATING THE MIND WITHOUT EDUCATING THE HEART,IS NO EDUCATION AT ALL.

The smarter

you get, the less you speak. You grow to realize not everyone is worth confrontation.

Your time is valuable.

Your energy is priceless.

You won't waste either on people who don't deserve them.

IF SOMETHING GOOD HAPPENS, TRAVEL TO CELEBRATE.

IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS,

TRAVEL TO FORGET.

IF NOTHING HAPPENS, TRAVEL TO MAKE SOMETHING HAPPEN!

Look at happy faces

And then look at sad faces

Did you notice that all happy faces have closed eyes !!!

And on the other hand, all sad or angry faces have opened eyes !!!

Moral :

This is life, close your eyes and ignore all negative things to live happy

If you get a gut feeling that something isn't righ about someone or a situation, trust it.

Tolerance is the highest degree of our strength and the desire to take revenge is our first sign of weakness..

Givers have to set limits because takers rarely do.

When you start taking care of yourself, you start feeling better, you start looking better, and you even start to attract better. It always starts with you.

We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, 

so as to have the life that is waiting for us.

"Don't forget, while you're busy doubting yourself, someone else is admiring your strength."

The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant.

I am too old to worry about who likes me and who dislikes me. 

I have more important things to do. 

If you love me, I love you.

If you support me, I support you. 

If you hate me, I don't care. Life goes on with or without you.

EDUCATING THE MIND WITHOUT EDUCATING THE HEART, 

IS NO EDUCATION AT ALL.

There's always a way - if you're committed.

Have you ever been so disappointed in someone that you forgive them and don't say anything, but in your head, you detach yourself from them completely?

वनवास में विरह का दर्द उर्मिला से पूछो, सीता से पूछोगे तो धर्म ही बताएगी

मोहब्बत का अर्थ राधा से पूछो, रुक्मिणी से पूछोगे तो अधिकार ही बताएगी

सेवा का मतलब श्रवण कुमार से पूछो, हनुमान जी से पूछोगे तो आनंद ही बताएँगे

और ज़हर का स्वाद शिव से पूछो, मीरा से पूछोगे तो अमृत ही बताएगी.

Start working on you.

The things that aren't meant for you will start falling away.

Every situation in life

is temporary. So, when life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it fully. And when life is not so good, remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way

मत चाहो किसी को इतना की उम्मीद के साथ खुद भी टूट जाओ..

ये दुनिया दिल से नहीं जरूरतों से प्यार करती है..

जीवन में जो लोग साथ रहकर छल

करे, धोखा दे, चुगली करे, बातों को

गलत तरीके से किसी के सामने

रखें, 

उनका साथ छोड़ देना बेहतर

होता है..

A good leader takes a little more than his share of the blame, 

a little less than his share of the credit.

YOU GOT TO GO DOWN A LOT OF WRONG ROADS TO FIND THE RIGHT ONE.

Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument or your age that is to blame. 

You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make. 

Be like the tiger and know who you are and that you don't need to think about the opinions of those that don't affect you unless you let them. 

"Sheep" are those that shouldn't really have any power over you. 

Losing sleep over what others think of you.... 

forfeits your power.

Know who you are. Hold your head high. 

Smile and nod at the sheep .....as you keep on pursuing what you know is right, 

....and what will take you where you want to go.

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing everything withlogic.

 True power is restraint. If words control you that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass.

ऋण, शत्रु और रोग को कभी छोटा नहीं समझना चाहिए और हो सके तो इन्हें हमेशा समाप्त ही रखना चाहिए।~ चाणक्य

ज़िन्दगी में अगर कोई रुठे तो उसे फौरन मना लेना..क्योंकि जिद्द की जंग में दूरियाँ अक्सर जीत जाती है..

किसी में कोई कमी दिखाई दे तो उसे समझाओलेकिन, हर किसी में कमी दिखाई दे तो खुद को समझाओ

हमने विस्मृति के बीज डाले तो यादों का दरख़्त उग आया कुछ चीज़ों को भूलना कितना कठिन है!

महत्वपूर्ण:

जिस किसी भी चीज से आप खुद को दूर रखना चाहते हैं और न चाहते हुए भी आपके सामने बार-बार आ रही है!

तो... विश्वास रखिए।

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उसे आपको स्वीकारने का हौंसला देना चाहते हैं

या आपकी कमजोरी को आपकी ताकत बना रहे हैं।

7 Quick Happiness Tips

1. Don’t listen to gossip.  

2. Ignore what people say about you.  

3. Design your own life.  

4. Look for the good in every situation.  

5. Develop an attitude of gratitude.  

6. Laugh more.  

7. Once it’s past, let it go.

It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone - so far. - Marilyn Monroe

You can only grow if you’re willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.

Sometimes, it’s easier to tell a stranger something very personal. It`s like there’s less risk, opening yourself up to someone who doesn’t know you.

इंसान की सबसे बड़ी हार तब हो जाती हैं जब उसे पता चलता है की.. जिसे हम अपना सब कुछ समझते हैं.... उसके .... लिए हम कुछ भी नहीं..!!

Let's tell each other our secret: We LIE to our souls.

*“You can beat 40 scholars with one fact,**but you can’t beat one idiot with 40 facts.”*

The important people in our lives leave imprints. They may stay or go in the physical realm, but they are always there in your heart, because they helped form your heart. There's no getting over that.

Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got. -

You could always go on changing things but there comes a time when you have to decide to stop.

Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.

If it’s still in your mind, it is still in your heart.

For some moments in life there are simply no words to describe the pain within us.

At the end of the day, you can either focus on what’s tearing you apart or what’s holding you together.

I have a limit and when you reach it I dismiss you from my life. It’s that simple.

सुलह का ज़रिया हो सकता था हम में झगड़ा हो सकता था जितने वक़्त ख़फ़ा थे उस मेंसोचो क्या-क्या हो सकता था -

People come and go in your life, but the right ones will always stay.

तुम्हारे घर के सभी रास्तों को काट गईहमारे हाथ में कोई लकीर ऐसी थी-

रिश्तो को टूटकर निभाने की आदत है मेरी.इसीलिए दर्द बहुत सा सह लेता हूँ मैं...

खुद से बहस करोगे तो सारे सवालों के जवाब मिल जाएंगेऔर दूसरों से बहस करोगे तो कई सवाल और खड़े हो जाएंगे !

बे-जान तो मैं अब भी नहीं फ़राज़,मगर जिसे जान कहते थे वो छोड़ गया

वो ताज़ा दास्तां हूं मरने के बा'द उन कोआएगा याद मेरा अफ़्साना ज़िंदगी का-

Healing begins when you share your story with safe people.

People inspire you or they drain you. Pick them wisely.

Notice the people who make an effort to stay in your life.

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than to hurt yourself trying to put them back together.

Have you ever been so disappointed in someone that you forgive them and don't say anything, but in your head, you detach yourself from them completely?

I advise you to stop sharing your dreams with people who try to hold you back, even if they’re your parents. Because, if you’re the kind of person who senses there’s something out there for you beyond whatever it is you’re expected to do - if you want to be EXTRA-ordinary - you will not get there by hanging around a bunch of people who tell you you’re not extraordinary. Instead, you will probably become as ordinary as they expect you to be.

Love is a choice as much as it is magic. Magic comes in moments, but choices stretch out over time. We make them new each morning.

When someone is going through a storm, your silent presence is more powerful than a million, empty words.

Do no run away from the heavy emotions. Honour the anger. Give pain the space it needs to breathe. This is how we let go.

You are not a reflection of the people who can’t love you.

Don’t say maybe if you want to say no.

You are strong enough to face it all, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

Never let your feelings get too deep, people can change anytime.

जिंदगी में ये हुनर भी आज़माना चाहिएजंग अपनों से हो, तो हार जाना चाहिए

लो आज हम ने तोड़ दिया रिश्ता-ए-उम्मीदअब कभी गिला न करेंगे किसी से हम

बात तो सिर्फ एतबार की थी,वैसे तो हम उनके हर मिजाज से वाक़िब थे

"नैराश्यं परमं सुखम्।"'किसी प्रकार आशा का न होना ही परम सुख है।'~वेदव्यास

दुःख की एक ख़ास बात होती है , उसके रूठ जाने का भय नहीं होता।

उनका इल्जाम लगाने का अंदाज हीकुछ गजब का थाहम खुद अपने ही खिलाफ गवाही दे बैठे

कुछ रिश्ते टूट तो जाते है,पर कभी खत्म नहीं होते...

जब ये दुनियां तबाह हो जायेगी सब लोग ख़त्म हो चुके होंगेतब शायद बचे हुए लोगों को समझ आएगा,ज़िंदगी में इंसानियत को बचाना ज़रूरी था..!!

चलते रहेंगे क़ाफिले तेरे बग़ैर भी यहाँ...एक तारा टुट जाने से फलक सुना तो नहीं होता!

[31/05, 8:18 am] Bansi Lal: फ़कत जंज़ीर बदली जा रही थी,

मैं समझ बैठा कि रिहाई हो गई..

[31/05, 8:21 am] Bansi Lal: चलते रहेंगे क़ाफिले तेरे बग़ैर भी यहाँ...

एक तारा टुट जाने से फलक सुना तो नहीं होता!

[31/05, 8:23 am] Bansi Lal: कुछ लोगों की बातों से ही पता चल जाता है,

कि ये कोई इल्ज़ाम देकर आगे बढ़ जायेंगें

[31/05, 8:24 am] Bansi Lal: ये ख़ामोश मिज़ाजी तुम्हे जीने नहीं देगी,

इस दौर में जीना है तो कोहराम मचा दो ...

[31/05, 8:25 am] Bansi Lal: अंधभक्त होने के लिए

 प्रचंड मूर्ख होना अनिवार्य शर्त है!

[31/05, 8:27 am] Bansi Lal: सवाल ये है हवा आई किस इशारे पर

चराग़ किसके बुझे ये सवाल थोड़ी है..

[31/05, 8:32 am] Bansi Lal: तेरे जज़्बे की शिद्दत क़ाबिल-ए-सिताइश है!!

फ़ासिले  फ़ासिले   नहीं  होते,

जब दिलों में ख़लल नही होते।

[31/05, 8:33 am] Bansi Lal: अपने कदमों की काबिलियत पर विश्वास रख, 

तेरी मंजिल तुझे अपने आप ढूंढ लेगी।

[31/05, 7:39 pm] Bansi Lal: Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.

A fear is another form of an excuse

[01/06, 9:58 am] Bansi Lal: A fear is another form of an excuse

[01/06, 10:00 am] Bansi Lal: जो कह दिया वह शब्द थे...

जो नहीं कह सके 

वह अनुभूति थी...

और

जो कहना है,

फिर भी नहीं कह सकते वह मर्यादा है..

[01/06, 10:03 am] Bansi Lal: बुद्धिमान लोग प्यार नहीं करते। 

वे बस प्यार का इस्तेमाल करते है।

[01/06, 10:05 am] Bansi Lal: सिलसिले तोड़ गया वो सभी जाते- जाते,

वरना इतने तो मरासिम थे के आते - जाते.

[01/06, 10:08 am] Bansi Lal: जलते घर को देखने वालों फूस का छप्पर आपका है

आपके पीछे तेज़ हवा है आगे मुकद्दर आपका है

उस के क़त्ल पे मैं भी चुप था मेरा नम्बर अब आया

मेरे क़त्ल पे आप भी चुप है अगला नम्बर आपका है...

[01/06, 5:18 pm] Bansi Lal: बिखर जाने की ख्वाइश तो थी हमारी उस फूल पर...

 

जो उगता तो था मंदिर ही के पास, पर चढ़ावे के वो काबिल न था!

[01/06, 5:22 pm] Bansi Lal: क्यों रोता है उसके जाने से तू क्या तलाश करता है? 

जुगनू का इंतज़ार कोई भला चिराग जला के करता है?

[01/06, 5:40 pm] Bansi Lal: I’m learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me.

8 Things to Stop Worrying About

1. Other peoples’ expectations for you. At the end of the day, it’s your life – not theirs- so just be yourself, and set your own personal goals.  

2. What other people say and do. It’s not up to us to control other people, or to change how they act, or to influence their decisions.  

4. Getting it wrong. We all make mistakes in our journey through life. That’s part of learning. It’s normal and human.  

7. Being right. This is highly over-rated and can cause a lot of stress. If you’re confident and real you don’t need to prove you’re right.  

8. Life being out of control. At the end of the day, there’s not much we can control – except our own reactions and our attitudes to life. So change what you can change – and then relax and enjoy life.

I’m learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me.