Many years ago, a rider came across some soldiers who were trying to move a heavy log without success. The corporal was standing by as the men struggled.
The rider asked the corporal why he wasn't helping. The corporal replied, "I am the corporal; i give orders."
The rider dismounted, went up and stood by the soldiers and as they were lifting the log, he helped them. With his help, the log got moved. The rider quietly mounted his horse and went to the corporal and said, "The next time your men need help, send for the Commander-in-Chief."
After he left, the corporal and his men found out that the rider was George Washington.
The message is pretty clear. Success and humility go hand in hand. When others blow your horn, the sound goes further. Just think about it? Simplicity and humility are two hallmarks of greatness. Humility does not mean self-demeaning behavior.
- Humility keeps you down to earth, in touch with reality and, funnily enough, this in itself boosts self-esteem.
- Being humble enables you to improve since you are more open to learning from your mistakes, people around you and life experiences.
- Humility enables you to assess situations and handle them with caution thereby accepting your limitations without fear.
- Humility makes you more aware and understanding of others’ strengths and weaknesses, since you are able to accept your own limitations and mistakes without your ego suffering.
- It leaves little room for envy, since you don’t compare yourself to others.
- You are more level-headed and success won’t corrupt you, having you do that which you swore you would never dream of doing.
- It will keep you honest because you are honest with yourself.
- You are more brave, since you are not threatened by fear of failure
In general, if you are not humble, life has sneaky, painful and sometimes harsh ways to make you humble. When you make a mistake, you get to watch in awe and shame, how wrong (and human!) you were.
So, why not try humility over an inflated ego and sense of self? You have so much to gain and nothing to lose.
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