Sunday, 17 October 2021

बुरा समय जीवन के उन सत्यों से सामना करवाता है,जिनकी आपने अच्छे समय मेंकभी कल्पना भी नहीं की होती है..

[02/10, 6:19 am] Bansi lal:
 बुरा समय जीवन के 
उन सत्यों से सामना करवाता है,

जिनकी आपने अच्छे समय में
कभी कल्पना भी 
नहीं की होती है..
[02/10, 6:22 am] Bansi lal:
 ऊंचाईयों पर वो ही 
पहुंच पाते हैं

जो प्रतिशोध के बजाय
परिवर्तन की सोच रखते हैं..!!
[03/10, 6:14 am] Bansi lal:
 सुख के दिन आएँ तो लड़ लेना, 

दुःख तो साथ रोने से ही कटता है।
[03/10, 6:21 am] Bansi lal:
 आप के बा'द हर घड़ी हम ने
आप के साथ ही गुज़ारी है
[03/10, 7:36 am] Bansi lal:
 Luxury and Lies
have huge maintenance costs.

Truth and Simplicity are self maintained without any cost.
[03/10, 7:37 am] Bansi lal:
 Without rain nothing grows. 

Learn to embrace the storms of your life.
[03/10, 7:38 am] Bansi lal:
 Problems and Difficulties are like Big cotton bags...

It looks Huge for those who See it...

But it looks Lighter for those who Handle it!
[03/10, 7:51 am] Bansi lal: 
Strength
doesn't come from what you
can do.

It comes from
overcoming the things you
once thought you couldn't.
[04/10, 7:02 am] Bansi lal: 
हालात से अपनी कुछ यूँ सौदा किया 

जो परिंदा मेरा ना हुआ उसे रिहा कर दिया ...
[05/10, 6:24 am] Bansi lal: 
Everything will come to you at the perfect time.
[05/10, 6:26 am] Bansi lal: 
जिन मुश्किलों में मुस्कुराना हो मना 

उन मुश्किलों में मुस्कुराना धर्म है

गोपालदास 'नीरज'
[05/10, 6:28 am] Bansi lal:
 दिल जलाओ या दिए...
 आँखों के दरवाज़े पर 

वक़्त से पहले तो आते नहीं आने वाले..!
[06/10, 7:40 am] Bansi lal: 
"Some people are going to leave, but that's not the end of your story. 

That's the end of their part in your story."
[06/10, 7:42 am] Bansi lal:
 याद रखना अपमान का बदला लड़ाई नहीं... 

बल्कि सामने वाले व्यक्ति से ज्यादा सफल होकर...
लिया जाता है.!!
[06/10, 7:43 am] Bansi lal: 
अपने सिवा कोई अपना नहीं...

लिहाज़ा अपनी कद्र किजिये!
[06/10, 8:48 pm] Bansi lal:
 learning to ignore things which is not good for your mental health,

Is one of the greatest paths to achieve inner peace.
[06/10, 8:49 pm] Bansi lal: 
सारी कोशिशें बचाव की नाकाम होंगी

इश्क़ जब होगा हादसे की तरह होगा
[06/10, 8:50 pm] Bansi lal:
 हमारे, 'होने' का सिलसिला भी..

तुम्हारे, "होने" से ही है...
[06/10, 8:50 pm] Bansi lal: 
संबंधो की मधुरता के लिए,

संबोधन की मधुरता अनिवार्य है..
[07/10, 6:35 am] Bansi lal: 
कहानी में जो होता ही नहीं है,

कहानी का वही किरदार हूँ मैं…
[07/10, 6:37 am] Bansi lal:
 मैं चाहता था ख़ुद से मुलाक़ात हो मगर,

आईने मेरे क़द के बराबर नहीं मिले…
[07/10, 6:38 am] Bansi lal:
 चलो लहू भी चरागों की नज़र कर देंगे,

ये शर्त है कि वो फिर रौशनी ज़्यादा करें
[07/10, 6:57 am] Bansi lal: 
integrity is doing the right thing

 when no one is watching
[07/10, 5:32 pm] Bansi lal: 
उम्र को हराना है तो हर शौक ज़िंदा रखिये...
दोस्त चंद रखिये, पर चुनिन्दा रखिये.....
अच्छे लोगों की संगत में रहो !
क्योंकि "सुनार" का कचरा भी 
"बनिये" के बादाम से महँगा बिकता है ..
[08/10, 9:15 am] Bansi lal: 
लोग आप पर जो पत्थर फैंकते हैं, 

उन पत्थरों से स्मारक बनायें।
~ रतन टाटा
[08/10, 9:22 am] Bansi lal: 
Confidence is not a belief in success, 

it’s a comfort with failure.
[08/10, 9:23 am] Bansi lal:
 चुप रहिए , 

या फिर ऐसे शब्द बोलिए जो मौन से ज्यादा कीमती हों ।
[08/10, 6:36 pm] Bansi lal: 
The Soul always Knows how to Heal itself.

The Challenge is to Silence the Mind!
[08/10, 6:42 pm] Bansi lal: Waht Is Real Relationship?

Jsut see tihs msg. Evrey splleing of tihs msg is wrnog. But sitll yuo can raed it wihtout ayn mistake. If yuo want true raletionship... Just ignoer mistaeks and

Understand them...
[08/10, 6:44 pm] Bansi lal: 
One day I met Money. I said Ur just a piece of Paper.......!!

Money smiled & said Offcorse I'm a piece of paper, but

I haven't seen a dustbin in my life......!

thats Attitude
[08/10, 7:34 pm] Bansi lal: 
We are constantly being
put to the test
 by trying
circumstances and
difficult people and
problems not necessarily
of our own making.
[09/10, 8:21 am] Bansi lal: 
फ़ैसलों के लिए बात कीजिए , 

फ़ासलो के लिए चुप रहिए ।
[09/10, 8:32 am] Bansi lal: 
अज़ल तो मुफ़्त में बदनाम है ज़माने में,

कुछ उनसे पूछ, जिन्हें ज़िंदगी ने मारा है। 
~फ़ैज़
(अजल:मृत्यु, मौत)
[09/10, 8:37 am] Bansi lal: 
"विचार और व्यवहार में सामंजस्य न होना ही धूर्तता है, मक्कारी है।"

प्रेमचंद
[09/10, 8:50 am] Bansi lal: 
अरे !! सब मामला यक़ीन का ही है..
[09/10, 9:32 am] Bansi lal:
 don’t ever beg for a friendship or relationship with anyone. 
if you don’t receive the same effort you give… 
lose that contact
:bansi
[10/10, 8:10 am] Bansi lal: 
ओस की तमन्ना में जैसे बाग़ जलता है

तू न हो तो सीने का दाग़ दाग़ जलता है
[10/10, 8:12 am] Bansi lal: 
समझनी पड़ती है उम्मीद और परेशानियां भी, 

चन्द दीवारों और छत से घर नहीं बना करते ...
[10/10, 8:24 am] Bansi lal:
 हम तो साहिल हैं कहीं चल के नहीं जाते हैं 

दौड़ कर खुद ही लिपटते हैं समंदर हम से...
[10/10, 4:59 pm] Bansi lal: 
Be consistent. Good things will start happening on its own.
[10/10, 5:04 pm] Bansi lal: 
People grow when they are loved well. 
If you want to help others heal, love them without an agenda.
[11/10, 7:29 am] Bansi lal: 
कभी कभी तो छलक पड़ती हैं यूँही आँखें 

उदास होने का कोई सबब नहीं होता 
- बशीर बद्र
[11/10, 7:30 am] Bansi lal: 
मित्रता विश्वास की वह श्रृंखला है, 

जिस पर साधारण लोग नहीं चढ़ सकते हैं।
[11/10, 7:31 am] Bansi lal: 
भरोसा चाहते हो तो
थोड़ा तुम भी रखो
मुझ पर...

ये प्यार नहीं जो इकतरफा ही हो जाए...!
[11/10, 7:37 am] Bansi lal: 
जिंदगी में दो ही लफज़.....  
खूबसूरत है... 

इक मेरा कहना...कहाँ हो 

इक तेरा कहना......महसूस कर तुम्हारे पास ही हूँ...
-बंसी
[11/10, 7:42 pm] Bansi lal: 
It's easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled. 

— Mark Twain.
[13/10, 7:23 am] Bansi lal: 
ख़ामोश हो क्यूँ दाद-ए-जफ़ा क्यूँ नहीं देते
बिस्मिल हो तो क़ातिल को दुआ क्यूँ नहीं देते

मुंसिफ़ हो अगर तुम तो कब इंसाफ़ करोगे
मुजरिम हैं अगर हम तो सज़ा क्यूँ नहीं देते

अहमद फ़राज़
[14/10, 8:06 am] Bansi lal: 
मनुष्य सबसे बड़ा तब होता है जब वह किसी बच्चे की मदद के लिए घुटनो के बल खड़ा होता है।
[14/10, 8:19 am] Bansi lal: 
यहाँ किसी को कोई रास्ता नहीं देता 
मुझे गिरा के अगर तुम सँभल सको तो चलो 

~ निदा फ़ाज़ली
[14/10, 6:49 pm] Bansi lal: 
जिस किताब में अच्छी कविता    होती है,

 उसके पास दीमकें नहीं फटकतीं।
[14/10, 6:51 pm] Bansi lal:
 यूं तो कोई सबूत नहीं
कि वो मेरे हैं

दिल का रिश्ता है
बस यकीं से चलता है
[14/10, 6:53 pm] Bansi lal: 
उल्लू दिन में नहीं देख सकता

 तो इसमें सूर्य का क्या दोष है ?
[15/10, 8:06 am] Bansi lal: 
There is no need to
rush. 

What is meant for
you will always arrive
on time.

#HappyDussehra
[15/10, 8:09 am] Bansi lal: 
Look for 3 things in a person.

Intelligence, Energy, & Integrity. 

If they don't have the last one, don't even bother with the first two.

Warren Buffett
[15/10, 8:09 am] Bansi lal:
 In life, it's important to
know when to stop arguing
with people and simply
let them be wrong.
[15/10, 8:27 am] Bansi lal: 
Company of
good people
is the diet
of Brain. 
-bansi
[15/10, 10:08 am] Bansi lal: 
फ़क़ीर समझते रहे हम खुद को ज़माने से उफ्फ ! 
एक निगाह की जादूगरी !!!!!!

उस एक नज़र ने हमें मालामाल कर दिया !!
[15/10, 10:09 am] Bansi lal:
 हमने रोती आँखों को हँसाया है हमेशा,

इससे बेहतर इबादत तो होगी नहीं ...
[15/10, 5:49 pm] Bansi lal: 
सुखी होने के बहुत रास्ते हैं

मगर
दूसरे से ज्यादा सुखी होने का,
कोई रास्ता नही है.
[16/10, 8:28 am] Bansi lal: 
Stay away from people who are constantly telling you it can not be done.
[16/10, 8:29 am] Bansi lal: 
जीत तेरा ही मुक़द्दर थी सो तू जीत गया 

वर्ना हारे हुए लश्कर में सिकंदर थे बहुत..!
[16/10, 8:32 am] Bansi lal: 
लोगों की निंदा से परेशान होकर 
अपना रास्ता ना बदलना 

सफलता शर्म से नहीं, 
साहस से मिलती है.
[16/10, 9:36 am] Bansi lal: 
गिरना आसान होता है, और गिराना उससे भी आसान होता है, 

लेकिन किसी का हाथ पकड़ कर उसे आगे बढ़ाना बहुत मुश्किल होता है ।
[16/10, 8:54 pm] Bansi lal: 
रुकावटें तो जिंदा इंसान को आती हैं "  साहेब"...

"वरना" अर्थी के लिए तो सब रास्ता छोड़ देते हैं..!!!
[16/10, 8:57 pm] Bansi lal: 
गुलों के रक़्स का मन्ज़र तो  देखने आओ,
कि नूर का ये समन्दर तो तो देखने आओ,

लचक  रही हैं ये शाख़ें सबा के झोंकों से,
छुपे ये  ख़ार  के ख़ंजर तो देखने आओ।
[16/10, 8:59 pm] Bansi lal: 
''सत्य को इच्छा होती है''
कि...''सब उसे जान ले'

असत्य को हमेशा डर लगता है...
कि... ''कोई उसे जान न ले'
[16/10, 9:00 pm] Bansi lal:
 बचा ले जो हर तूफान से
उसे आस कहते है,

बड़ा मजबूत है ये धागा
जिसे विश्वास कहते है..
[17/10, 7:42 am] Bansi lal: 
इश्क़ दिल का वो सुकून है

जो रूह को सदा बेचैन रखता है
[17/10, 7:47 am] Bansi lal:
 समझ जाता हूँ मीठी बातों के पीछे छुपे रूखे लहजे को...
पर चुप रहता हूँ... 

क्यों की मेरे पास ज्यादा रिश्ते नहीं है, 
गंवाने को..........
[17/10, 8:00 am] Bansi lal:
 Sometimes people with low self esteem will try to punish you for caring about them.
[17/10, 11:31 am] Bansi lal: 
अपनी मस्ती में बहता दरिया हूँ

मैं किनारा भी हूँ भँवर भी हूँ

रिश्तों को तौलने का नहीं, सम्मान देने का प्रयास करेंमित्रों को परखने का नहीं, समझने का प्रयास करेंदोनों हीं मजबूत रहेंगे..

[13/09, 7:21 am] Bansi lal: 
There are two reasons why people don’t talk about things; either it doesn’t mean anything to them, or it means everything.
[13/09, 7:23 am] Bansi lal:
 Pain doesn’t just show up in our lives for no reason. 

It’s a sign that something in our life needs to change.
[13/09, 7:55 am] Bansi lal:
 ज़ख़्म देकर मुझे हौसला भी देता है 

इससे बढ कर      तबी'अत-शनास
क्या देगा 

(तबी'अत-शनास:- घनिष्ठ मित्र)
[14/09, 7:23 am] Bansi lal:
 तब्दीली आँखों को ज़रा भी मंज़ूर नहीं

तस्वीर जो मेरे दिल ने बनाई हुई है
[14/09, 7:28 am] Bansi lal: 
When a person's actions and words don't align,

 believe the actions.
[14/09, 9:51 pm] Bansi lal: 
ज़िंदगी में कभी भी 
ये सोचते मत बैठो के...
*कौन कब कैसे कहाँ बदल गया*

देखो इतना के वह तुम्हें क्या सिखाकर गया ..
:बंसी
[15/09, 7:16 am] Bansi lal: 
क़िरदार मेरा ग़ैरों से पूछिए,

अपनों के दरमियान हम ज़रा बदनाम है..
[15/09, 7:29 am] Bansi lal: 
मुहब्बत की आख़िरी रस्म को अदा कर दिया

मुश्किल था पर उसे रुख़सत मुसकुराकर किया
[16/09, 7:38 am] Bansi lal:
 कितनी मुश्क़िल के बाद टूटा है,

एक रिश्ता कभी जो था ही नहीं…
[16/09, 7:39 am] Bansi lal: 
"खुशियों का कोई रास्ता नहीं, खुश रहना ही रास्ता है "
~ गौतम बुद्ध
[17/09, 8:24 am] Bansi lal:
 भले शिकायतों के साथ कीजिये, 

पर ज़रूरी है बात कीजिये।
[17/09, 8:26 am] Bansi lal: 
शिकवा नहीं तेरे रवैये का

तुम से उम्मीद बेतहाशा थी...!
[17/09, 8:34 am] Bansi lal: 
आओ गले मिल कर ये देखें,

अब हम में कितनी दूरी है . . .
[17/09, 8:35 am] Bansi lal: 
तरीक़े बदलो 
या अपने विचार.....

हर बार 
इंसान बदल लेने से 
रिश्ते नहीं सुधरते...
:बंसी
[17/09, 8:38 am] Bansi lal: 
फूलों में भी कीड़े पाये जाते है….!
पत्थरों में भी हीरे पाये जाते है…!

बुराई को छोड़कर 
अच्छाई देखो
नर में भी नारायण 
पाये जाते है….!

मै आपके साथ हूँ ये मेरा भाग्य है
पर आप मेरे साथ हो ये मेरा परम सौभाग्य है…
: बंसी लाल
[22/09, 6:52 am] Bansi lal: 
Every success and every good thing has a history of failures and disappointments.
[22/09, 6:54 am] Bansi lal: 
तू अपनी मर्ज़ी के सभी किरदार आज़मा ले

मेंरे बग़ैर अब तेरी कहानी नहीं चलेगी
[23/09, 6:22 am] Bansi lal: 
भटकते अब्र(बादल) ने धरती से ये कहा होगा, 

पनाह हमको भी दे दे तेरा भला होगा
[23/09, 6:33 am] Bansi lal: 
एक दिन वर्षों का संघर्ष

बहुत ख़ूबसूरत तरीक़े 
से तुमसे टकरायेगा !
[24/09, 6:04 am] Bansi lal: 
*When people hurt you over and over,*

*Think of them as sandpaper.*

*They may scratch and hurt a bit,*
but in the end, *you end up polished*
and 
*they end up useless.*
~Bansi
[25/09, 7:20 am] Bansi lal: 
If someone doesn’t fight to keep you, never fight yourself to stay.
[25/09, 7:22 am] Bansi lal: 
रूह के रिश्तों को किसी कसौटी पर ना कस,

कुछ रिश्ते अहसास से गुज़र जाया करते हैं
[25/09, 7:42 am] Bansi lal: 
One of the most healing things you can do is recognize where in your life you are your own poison.
[26/09, 8:29 am] Bansi lal: 
The distance between dreams and reality is called discipline.
[26/09, 8:34 am] Bansi lal: 
तोड़ देती  है  उन्हें   सख़्तमिज़ाजी...  उन की
जिन में होता ही नहीं वस्फ़ लचक जाने का..
[26/09, 8:43 am] Bansi lal:
 “रहने दो ना तुम हमको यूँ ही उलझा हुआ सा अपने में,

सुना है सुलझ जाने से धागे अलग अलग हो जाते हैं।”
[26/09, 8:45 am] Bansi lal: 
don’t break yourself just to fit into someone’s life.
[27/09, 7:03 am] Bansi lal: 
मेरा दर्द किसी के लिए हंसने की वजह हो सकता है। 

पर मेरी हंसी कभी भी किसी के दर्द की वजह नहीं होनी चाहिए.

~ चार्ली चैपलिन
[27/09, 7:07 am] Bansi lal: 
संबंध कुछ समय तक रखना है तो मीठा बोलिए 

लंबे समय तक रखना है तो स्पष्ट बोलिए !
[27/09, 7:09 am] Bansi lal: 
Surround yourself with people who illuminate your path.
[27/09, 8:11 pm] Bansi lal: 
अकेले बैठना, चुप बैठना

इस प्रश्न की चिंता से मुक्त होकर बैठना कि ‘क्या सोच रहे हो?’

*यह भी एक सुख है।*
[27/09, 8:16 pm] Bansi lal: 
एक दिन हम सब एक दूसरे को यही सोच कर खो देंगे कि...

अगर वो याद नहीं करता तो मैं क्यों करूं....!
[28/09, 7:47 am] Bansi lal: 
तू ने दस्तक ही नहीं दी किसी दरवाज़े पर

वर्ना खुलने को तो दीवार में भी दर थे बहुत
[28/09, 8:32 am] Bansi lal: 
जंग अपनों से कर तो लो, 

लेकिन, जीत जाना भी एक मुसीबत है !!!
[28/09, 6:50 pm] Bansi lal: 
जीवन में आने वाली
समस्याओं का
समाधान..

चिंता में नहीं,बल्कि
चिन्तन में निहित होता है..
[28/09, 6:52 pm] Bansi lal: 
*सृष्टि कितनी भी परिवर्तित हो जाए फिर भी हम पूर्ण सुखी नहीं हो सकते*

*दृष्टि थोड़ी सी परिवर्तित हो जाए तो हम सुखी हो सकते हैं..*
[28/09, 6:56 pm] Bansi lal: 
विचारों में पवित्रता चाहते हैं

 तो अन्न हमेशा ईमानदारी की कमाई का ही खाना चाहिए
[29/09, 6:32 am] Bansi lal: 
शब्दों में धार नहीं, बल्कि आधार होना चाहिए, 

जीन शब्दों में धार होती है वो मन को काटते है, 

जिन शब्दों में आधार होता है वो मन को जीत लेते है ।।
[29/09, 6:33 am] Bansi lal: 
हारने वालों का अपना रुतबा होता है, 

मलाल वो करे जो दौड़ में शामिल नहीं थे…
[30/09, 7:27 am] Bansi lal: 
प्रतिक्षाएँ खूबसूरत होती है ..

बशर्ते कोई आने वाला तो हो !
[30/09, 7:28 am] Bansi lal: 
अस्तित्व ने आनंद दिया है..

दुःख तो......
हमारी खोज है..
[30/09, 7:30 am] Bansi lal: 
मित्र और शत्रु को 
कभी , विश्वास दिलाने की  जरुरत नहीं होती...!

शत्रु कभी यकीन नहीं करेगा ,
मित्र कभी शक नहीं करेगा...
[30/09, 7:32 am] Bansi lal:
 रिश्तों को तौलने का नहीं, सम्मान देने का प्रयास करें

मित्रों को परखने का नहीं, समझने का प्रयास करें

दोनों हीं मजबूत रहेंगे..

रिश्ते मैं निखार हाथ मिलाने से कभी नहीं आता,हाथों को थामने से आता है

[08/09, 6:29 am] Bansi lal:
 रिश्ते मैं निखार हाथ मिलाने से कभी नहीं आता,

हाथों को 
थामने से आता है
:बन्सी
[08/09, 6:30 am] Bansi lal: 
वो शख्श एक ही लम्हे में टूट गया

जिसे तराश रहा था मैं एक जमाने से...!!
[08/09, 6:32 am] Bansi lal: 
खफ़ा जो ख़ुद से हों

उसे दुनिया फ़िर  मनाए कैसे
[08/09, 6:36 am] Bansi lal: 
Be a voice, not an echo.
[08/09, 11:38 am] Bansi lal: 
फिर उसी शख़्स से उम्मीद ए वफ़ा?//ऐ दिल, तू अब पिटेगा मेरे हाथों..
[08/09, 11:45 am] Bansi lal: 
Tears on the linoleum floor;             Pain sewn into the staid armchair'
Cries in the hallway;                          Happiness pushed into the corner'of the dusty book shelf;                                 True emotions pulverized'                Words left unspoken."
[08/09, 7:18 pm] Bansi lal:
 संघर्ष प्रकृति का आमन्त्रण है..

जो स्वीकार करता है,
वही आगे बढ़ता है...
[08/09, 7:36 pm] Bansi lal: 
ये नफरत है जिसे लम्हों में दुनिया जान लेती है

मोहब्बत का पता लगाने में ज़माने बीत जाते हैं..!!
[09/09, 6:14 am] Bansi lal: 
ज़िद पर आ जाऊं तो पलट कर भी ना देखूं,

मेरे सब्र से अभी वाकिफ़ ही कहाँ हो...!
:बन्सी
[09/09, 6:18 am] Bansi lal:
 हमारी मुलाकात के आखरी दिन  की हर बात याद है 

सिवाय इस बात के की मैंने तुम्हे अलविदा कब कहा..!
~बन्सी
[09/09, 6:19 am] Bansi lal: यदि कोई इंसान किसी के बारे में सबसे ज्यादा बाते करता है..

तो इसका मतलब है वह उस इंसान से प्रभावित हैं........!!
[09/09, 4:51 pm] Bansi lal: 
खामोशी किसी इन्सान की कमजोरी नहीं,
बड़प्पन होता है...

वरना जिसको सहना आता है,
उसको कहना भी आता है..
[09/09, 8:13 pm] Bansi lal:
 हैरत से तकता है सहरा बारिश के नज़राने को,

कितनी दूर से आई है ये रेत से हाथ मिलाने को!
[09/09, 8:54 pm] Bansi lal: 
"Nothing is an obstacle unless you say it is."

Be in charge of your life.
Push through when the going gets tough and stay committed to your goal.

You can do it !!
👍👍👍👍👍
:bansi
[11/09, 7:43 am] Bansi lal: 
पांव रखने पर चीख उठते हैं

ख़ुश्क पत्तों में भी कितनी अना होती है

(अना  =  स्वाभिमान)
[11/09, 9:02 am] Bansi lal:
 नाम की भूख ....

ज्ञान की भूख को समाप्त कर देती है !!
[11/09, 9:04 am] Bansi lal:
 प्यार किए जाने से  ज़्यादा ज़रूरत...

समझे जाने की होती है..!!
[11/09, 7:52 pm] Bansi lal: 
मेरे ख़्याल में अदब की बेहतरीन तारीफ़ तन्क़ीद-ए-हयात है। 

अदब को हमारी ज़िंदगी पर तब्सेरा करना चाहिए।
[12/09, 9:20 am] Bansi lal:
 हर क़सम झूठी होती है, हर इक अहद झूठा होता है 

नादान हैं सब, वक़्त की मर्ज़ी का किसे पता होता है
[12/09, 9:24 am] Bansi lal: 
इंसान की सोच जब तंग हो जाती है,

खूबसूरत ज़िंदगी भी जंग हो जाती है...
[12/09, 9:28 am] Bansi lal: 
रिश्ते मोतियों की तरह होते हैं 

गिर जाएं 
तो उसे झुक कर उठा लेना चाहिए...!!

झूठे लोगों को बड़े हुनर आते हैंसच्चे लोग तो इल्जाम से ही मर जाते है..!!

[31/08, 7:26 am] Bansi lal:
 झूठे लोगों को बड़े हुनर आते हैं
सच्चे लोग तो इल्जाम से ही मर जाते है..!!

[31/08, 7:55 am] Bansi lal:
 i’ve seen you at your worst and i still think you’re the best.
'bansi
[31/08, 7:34 pm] Bansi lal:
 ज़िन्दगी तुम्हारे उसी गुण का इम्तिहान लेती है, 
जो तुम्हारे भीतर मौजूद है।

~ अमृता प्रीतम
[31/08, 7:36 pm] Bansi lal:
 कुछ लोग ऐसे होते हैं जो सिर्फ़ हमारे सामने हमारे होते हैं...

ऐसे लोगों से संभल के रहना...
[31/08, 7:45 pm] Bansi lal:
 खाली हाथों को कभी गौर से देखा है...

किस तरह लोग लकीरों से निकल जाते हैं..!!
[01/09, 7:37 am] Bansi lal:
 चंद फासला जरूर रखिए
हर रिश्ते के दरमियान

बदलने वाले अक्सर
बेहद अजीज ही हुआ करते हैं
[01/09, 7:47 am] Bansi lal:
 Don't spend your entire life building a ship,

without ever tasting the salt of the ocean.

~ Alexander den Heijer
[02/09, 7:13 am] Bansi lal: 
छीन लेता है मुस्कान चेहरे की 

जिसको बता दिया जाए तुम ज़रूरी हो...!!
[02/09, 7:16 am] Bansi lal: 
जीवन की सबसे बड़ी गलती वही होती हैं...

जिससे हम कुछ सीख नही पाते.....!!
[02/09, 7:20 am] Bansi lal: 
शब्द सिर्फ निरे शब्द ही रह जाते

यदि विश्वास उनमें प्राण न भरे
[02/09, 8:31 pm] Bansi lal: 
कुछ लोग आँसुओ की तरह होते हैं!

पता नहीं होता साथ दे रहे हैं...या  साथ छोड़ रहे हैं......!!!!
[02/09, 8:32 pm] Bansi lal:
 लफ्जों के सहारे करीब आया था वो

दूर जाने के लिये उसने
खामोशी का रास्ता चुना....!!
[03/09, 7:33 am] Bansi lal: 
कुछ बातों को कभी नहीं कहा जाना चाहिए .. 

भ्रम ज़रूरी है, रिश्तों को संजोए रखने के लिए!!
[03/09, 7:40 am] Bansi lal:
 ऑटो रिक्शा के पीछे लिखा हुआ था-

 *“अपने को मिले हुए एक बुरे अनुभव का*

 *बदला हम कई अच्छे आदमियों से लेते हैं।”*
[03/09, 6:41 pm] Bansi lal:
 "सब कुछ जीत लेने" में;
और 
"अंत तक हिम्मत न हारने में।"

अर्थ एक ही है साहिब!!
[03/09, 6:43 pm] Bansi lal:
 सफर में अच्छे लोग साथ हों, 

रास्ता लम्बा नहीं लगता
[05/09, 9:26 am] Bansi lal: 
नजरों से वार करना
हमें भी आता है जनाब

बस डरते हैं 
कहीं निशाना दिल पर ना लग जाए
[05/09, 11:07 am] Bansi lal: 
On Teachers' Day, greetings to the entire teaching fraternity, which has always played a pivotal role in nurturing young minds. It is commendable how teachers have innovated and ensured the education journey of students continues in the COVID-19 times. It is urged from all teaching fraternity to start a movement for off line classes.  Student's have lost a lot, to save from wrost lets have educational institution be open for students having off line classes with strict Covid protocol.
#TeachersDay2021
🙏🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐
[07/09, 6:24 am] Bansi lal
: ज़िंदगी इक आँसुओं का जाम है

पी गए कुछ और कुछ छलका गए।
[07/09, 7:08 pm] Bansi lal:
 कुछ भी हासिल न हुआ दिल को यूँ पत्थर कर के...

जिसे रहना था... वो तो फिर भी दरारों में रहा...!!
[07/09, 7:09 pm] Bansi lal: 
सम्बन्ध ओर जल
एक समान होते है...
न कोई रंग, न कोई रूप..

फिर भी जीवन के अस्तित्व के लिए
सबसे महत्वपूर्ण...

Friday, 8 October 2021

Believe in yourself:

The level of success you see in your life is a direct result of your belief system.

Believing in yourself means having faith in your own capabilities. It means believing that you CAN do anything that it is within your ability.

When you believe in yourself, you can overcome self-doubt and have the confidence to take action and get things done.

Use your strengths to your advantage. This approach will bring out your confidence as you focus on using your best skills.

Shifting everything else off, of your plate gives you the power to be awesome at what you do best.

Self-confidence comes from embracing who you are and what's important to you. It does not come from being inauthentic or trying to impress people.

Your strengths are what make you unique. Develop these qualities and depend on them.

No one can stop you when you believe in yourself

who is rich:

*Who is Rich?*

Once, a lady with her family was staying in a 3-star hotel for a picnic. She was the mother of a 6 month old baby.

"Can I get 1 cup of milk?" asked the lady to the 3-star hotel manager.

"Yes madam", he replied. "But it will cost 100 bucks". "No

problem", said the lady.

While driving back from hotel, the child was hungry again.

They stopped at a road side tea stall and took milk from the tea vendor

"How much?" she asked the tea vendor.

"Madam, we don't charge money for kid's milk", the old man said with a smile.

"Let me know if you need more for the journey". The lady took one more cup and left.

She wondered, "Who's richer?

The hotel manager or the old tea vendor?

*"The world is full of nice people... If you can't find one... Be one.*

Sometimes you must hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, Lose in order to gain, Because most of Life's greatest Lessons are Learned through Pain

Sometimes you must
hurt in order to know, 
fall in order to grow,
Lose in order to gain, Because most of Life's greatest Lessons are Learned through Pain


When you start seeing your worth, you'll find it harder to stay around people who don't.

"If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way."

We are constantly being
put to the test by trying
circumstances and
difficult people and
problems not necessarily
of our own making.

Strength doesn't come from what you can do. 
It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn't.


Problems and Difficulties are like Big cotton bags...
It looks Huge for those who See it...
But it looks Lighter for those who Handle it!

Without rain nothing grows. Learn to embrace the storms of your life.

Drop a love if this resonates with you!

"To err is human, to forgive, divine."

Your greatest test will be
how to handle people
who mishandled you.

Integrity is the most valuable and respected quality of leadership.
Always keep your word.

Don't change yourself to win someone's heart.
Stay true and you will find someone
who likes you for being you.


Your life does not get
better by chance, it gets
better by change.


integrity is doing the
right thing 
when no one is
watching







Presentation matters:

2 wives chatting in office Wife 1:1 had a fine evening how was yours??

Wife2:It was a disaster. My husband came home, ate his dinner in 3 mins &fell asleep in 2 mins. How was yours?

Wife1:oh mine was amazing! My husband came home and took me out for a romantic dinner. After dinner we walked for an hour. When we came home he lit the candles around the house.it was like a fairy Tale!


Husband1:how was your evening? 
Husband2 :Great. 
Husband 2:Great. 
I Came Home, dinner was on the table, I ate & fell asleep.

What about you?
Husband1:
it was horrible. I came home, there's no dinner, they cut the electricity because I forgot to pay the bill.so I took her out for dinner which was so expensive that didn't have money left for a cab or auto. we walked home which took an hour & when we got home, I remembered there was no electricity so I had to light candles all over the house!!!

Moral: Presentation does matter........ 
No matter what the reality is!!!

We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them. :ALBERT EINSTEIN Physicist

The secret of your future
is hidden in your daily routine.


Management Lesson:

Management Lesson:

One night when the whole world was sleeping, a thief broke into the house of a washer man.

The washer man was fast asleep but the donkey and the dog were awake.

The dog decided not to bark since the master did not take good care of him and wanted to teach him a lesson.

The donkey got worried and said to the dog that if he doesn't bark, the donkey will have to do something himself.

The dog did not change his mind and the donkey started braying loudly.
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Hearing the donkey bray, the thief ran away, the master woke up and started beating the donkey for braying in the middle of the night for no reason.

Moral of the story: 
One must not engage in duties other than his own.

Now take a new look at the same story.

The washer man was like a typical top management corporate guy.

He had the fundas of looking at the bigger picture and thinking out of the box.

He was convinced that there must be some reason for the donkey to bray in the night.

He walked outside a little and did some fact finding, applied a research approach, figured out from the ground realities that there was a thief who broke in and the donkey only wanted to alert him about it.

Looking at the donkey's extra initiative and going beyond the call of the duty, he rewarded him with lot of hay and other perks and the donkey became his favorite pet.

The dog's life didn't change much, except that now the donkey was more motivated in doing the dogs duties as well.

In the Appraisal the dog managed an "8".
The donkey was rated as "9".

Soon the dog realized that the donkey is taking care of his duties and he can enjoy his life sleeping and lazing around.

The donkey had to live up to his already high performance standards.

Soon he was over burdened with work and always under pressure and now is looking for a switch....

Moral of the story - Remains the same- "One must not engage in duties other than his own"

Disclaimer: All characters in the story are not at all imaginary. Any resemblance to person living or dying of work is purely intentional..!!!

"Management is about persuading people to do things they do not want to do, while leadership is about inspiring people to do things they never thought they could."

Don't waste your time looking back on what you've lost. 
Move on, for life is not meant to be traveled backwards.


"Nothing is an obstacle unless you say it is."
Be in charge of your life. Push through when the going gets tough and stay committed to your goal.
You can do it!

Followers will never know how hard the leader tries to create path.

"If someone is going down the wrong road, 
he doesn't need motivation to speed him up. 
What he needs is education to turn him around." 

I found the
key to happiness. 
Stay away from idiots.

"Build a team so strong you don't know who the boss is."

STAY POSITIVE.
The things you're waiting and hoping for, 
tend to arrive at the most unexpected moments.

When I shut my mouth and walk away, 
It does not mean you have won. 
It simply means you are not worth my time anymore.

MOST OF THE PROBLEMS IN LIFE COME BECAUSE OF TWO REASONS:
WE ACT
WITHOUT THINKING. 
AND 
WE KEEP THINKING WITHOUT ACTING.

If you saw the size of the blessing coming, 
you would understand the magnitude of the battle you are fighting.

Remember there are two sides to every story, 
and if you are not willing to listen to both sides, 
don't be so quick to make your judgment on what you have heard.

ऐ "मतलब" तेरा शुक्रिया,
तूने जोड़ रखा है इन्सानों को...

It takes nothing to join the crowd. 
It takes everything to stand alone.


Speak up for your worth and
integrity when you are not being
respected or valued.

Then when a person continues
to disregard your words, use your power by walking away or choose when you want to engage with them.

Silence may be the wisest choice
you can make. Value your time and energy. You are worthy.

I'm mastering the
art of being silent,
even when there's a
lot to be said.

Sometimes miracles
are just good people
with kind hearts.

HOW WE WALK WITH THE
BROKEN
SPEAKS LOUDER THAN HOW
WE SIT WITH THE GREAT.

When people hurt you over and over,
think of them as sandpaper. They may scratch and hurt a bit, but in the end, you end up polished and they end up useless.



Strength lies on Interdependence:

A young girl and her father were walking along a forest path. At some point, they came across a large tree branch on the ground in from of them. 

The girl asked her father, "If I try, do you think I could move that branch?" Her father replied, "I am sure you can, if you use all your strength." The girl tried her best to lift or push the branch, but she was not strong enough and she couldn't move it.

She said, with disappointment, "You were wrong, dad. I can't move it." ' 

Try again with all your strength," replied her father.

Again, the girl tried hard to push the branch.

She struggled but it did not move. "Dad, I cannot do it,' said the girl.

Finally, her father said, "Young lady, I advised you to use 'all your strength'.

You didn't. You didn't ask for my help"

Our real strength lies not in independence, but in interdependence.

No individual person has all the strengths, all the resources and all the stamina required.

*Let's all help each other in this interdependent world*

Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.

"True Guidance".... can be a small lamp in a Tunnel....!!!!!
It does not show Everything at once.....
But
It gives enough light For Next Step to be Safe and Sure......!!!!


Don't spend your entire life building a ship, without ever tasting the salt of the ocean.

When you finally realize that nothing is permanent in this life, you will become more tolerant, more forgiving and less judgmental.

The Soul always Knows how to Heal itself.
The Challenge is to Silence the Mind!

वक्त निकल जाने के बाद कदर की जाए तो
कदर नही अफसोस कहलाता है ।

toxic people LOVE playing the victim.. what's even more crazy is how they're SO GOOD at manipulating people into thinking you're the bad guy.


Let the world know you as you are...
Not as you think you should be...
Because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose and then where are you?
हुनर होगा तो दुनिया
खुद कदर करेगी
एड़ियाँ उठाने से
किरदार ऊँचे नहीं होते
One great lesson I learned from my Life..

There is no market for your emotions, so never advertise your feelings, just show your Attitude.

THE BAD NEWS
IS TIME FLIES. 
THE GOOD NEWS IS YOU'RE THE PILOT.

If you want to make everyone happy, don't be a leader - sell ice cream.




Mahabharat Karna and Krishna:

In Mahabharat, Karna asks Lord Krishna - "My mother left me the moment I was born. Is it my fault I was born an illegitimate child?

I did not get the education from Dhronacharya because I was considered not a Kshatriya.

Parsuraam taught me but then gave me the curse to forget everything when he came to know I was Son of Kunthi belong to Kshatriya.

A cow was accidentally hit by my arrow & its owner cursed me for no fault of mine.

I was disgraced in Draupadi's Swayamvar.

Even Kunthi finally told me the truth only to save her other sons.

Whatever I received was through Duryodhana's charity.

So how am I wrong in taking his side ???"

**Lord Krishna replies, "Karna, I was born in a jail.

Death was waiting for me even before my birth.

The night I was born I was separated from my birth parents.

From childhood, you grew up hearing the noise of swords, chariots, horses, bow, and arrows. I got only cow herd's shed, dung, and multiple attempts on my life even before I could walk!

No Army, No Education. I could hear people saying I am the reason for all their problems.

When all of you were being 3 appreciated for your valour by your teachers I had not even received any education. I joined Gurukula of Rishi Sandipani only at the age of 16!

You are married to a girl of your choice. I didn't get the girl I loved & rather ended up marrying those who wanted me or the ones I rescued from demons.

I had to move my whole community from the banks of Yamuna to far off Sea shore to save them from Jarasandh. I was called a coward for running away!!

If Duryodhana wins the war you will get a lot of credit. What do I get if Dharmaraja wins the war? Only the blame for the war and all related problems...

Remember one thing, Karna. Everybody has Challenges in life to face.

LIFE IS NOT FAIR & EASY ON ANYBODY!!!

But what is Right (Dharma) is known to your Mind (conscience). No matter how much unfairness we got, how many times we were Disgraced, how many times we Fall, what is important is how you REACTED at that time.

But what is Right (Dharma) is known to your Mind (conscience). No matter how much unfairness we got, how many times we were Disgraced, how many times we Fall, what is important is how you REACTED at that time.

Life's unfairness does not give you license to walk the wrong path...

Always remember, Life may be tough at few points, but DESTINY is not created by the SHOES we wear but by the STEPS we take...

Success is never Owned...Its Rented ...And Rent is due every day !!!!

Mistakes, Failures, Insult, Frustration and Rejection are part of Progress and Growth.

Nobody ever achieved anything worthwhile without facing these five things.

Everyday two bulls fight in every person's mind .....
"Positive & Negative"
Do you know which one Wins .....
The one you Feed the Most..!!.
Think Twice Act Wise ....!!



Thursday, 7 October 2021

Who is rich:

*Who is Rich?*

Once, a lady with her family was staying in a 3-star hotel for a picnic. She was the mother of a 6 month old baby.

"Can I get 1 cup of milk?" asked the lady to the 3-star hotel manager.

"Yes madam", he replied. "But it will cost 100 bucks". "No

problem", said the lady.

While driving back from hotel, the child was hungry again.

They stopped at a road side tea stall and took milk from the tea vendor

"How much?" she asked the tea vendor.

"Madam, we don't charge money for kid's milk", the old man said with a smile.
"Let me know if you need more for the journey". The lady took one more cup and left.

She wondered, "Who's richer?

The hotel manager or the old tea vendor?

*"The world is full of nice people... If you can't find one... Be one.*

डर हमको भी लगता है रस्ते के सन्नाटे से लेकिन एक सफ़र पर ऐ दिल अब जाना तो होगा

 [8:11 AM, 8/24/2023] Bansi Lal: डर हमको भी लगता है रस्ते के सन्नाटे से लेकिन एक सफ़र पर ऐ दिल अब जाना तो होगा [8:22 AM, 8/24/2023] Bansi La...